Anyone feel like they’ve just accumulated too many clothes and don’t even know where to start to get rid of them?

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Me! Every time I meet a friend I go with 2-3 tops to give away. I send them a heads up message like this and if they’re okay with it, I give it to them.
“So this year, I’m trying to make sustainable choices with my clothes. Every time I meet a friend, I give away a piece of clothing I haven’t worn in a while. These are great clothes/some of my favorites, but I’m just not wearing them very much and they deserve a better home. They’re in great condition and ofcourse, free. I just want to keep them going instead of throwing them away or donating to a charity which also throws them into landfill in 3rd world countries. I can send you pictures of them before we meet. Any chance you’d be interested?”

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My friends and I do clothing swaps all the time, and we’ve been doing it for several years, so it’s not unusual to see a piece you’ve brought to one swap show up again a year or two later! It’s a great way to refresh your closet without spending a ton. Everything that doesn’t get taken by someone gets donated to women/family shelters, organizations that prep women for white-collar jobs (like Suited for Change), etc. Lots of those orgs here in the DC area.

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OP, I try to purge my closet once or twice a year and then take everything to a local women’s shelter. The women at the shelters have sometimes had to leave everything they own to escape an abusive relationship and are starting over with nothing.

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They should come up with a google search! Some have an “office” location with a separate location where the actual shelter is.

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Can I take your extra clothes lol, still new in my career and trying to build my closet

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The very best way to take care of this is to buy less.

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Absolutely. Minimalism is an art and makes life better. I wish I could be a better minimalist

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One purge method I used was when I was packing for a 4 month trip. I emptied a closet in a guest room, and moved into that closet the items I loved and wore frequently. I even tried on every item and took a photo of me in it to check that it actually looked good. I moved about 20% over. From there I packed one suitcase which I lived out of for spring and summer. There were still things I didn’t wear.

The 80% remaining was intended for donation. I couldn’t bring myself to get rid of all of it but I’d say a good half of it went. Some of it I kept because I think I could sell it or it had some nostalgic value. 6 months later it’s all still there. Maybe this time I’ll actually purge it

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I organise flee market together with friends

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Goodwill?
Salvation Army?

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ThredUp is great! They’ll give you a label to send your clothes in, they list them for you and you make a % of purchase if they’re sold, and if they don’t sell they’ll donate them for you to charity (complete with tax form). If you want them returned, they do that too

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I do a first pass for a friend and then a second pass for donations. It helps to only buy sustainable/ long lasting clothing.

Man I wish I had this problem 😅

Gap has great tall stuff. I have a long torso and my 25 yo has a 36 in inseam (so annoying--I have stubby legs so need tall tops and petite pants and will never join the romper revolution). We both find things we like there often.

I have the same issue! I have purged many times because of moves but I’m still left with a closet overflowing!

Rent the runway subscription. It stopped me from buying clothes.

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I recently cut my clothes from college down by ~70% by re-selling them and replaced half of it with newer pieces. I also donated. Re-selling is not a quick process, it took a year plus, but it was a great low effort way to slowly clean out your closet overtime and even make some of the money back.

Did you find selling online was worth the effort. Consignment is a bit better if they take it, I put credits towards more stuff though :)

No. I have too little clothes. I’ve been gaining so much weight over the years, I keep buying clothes and in a couple of months can barely fit them. I’m tired of the cycle so now I just wear the same 5 outfits every week. 😓😭😪
And I hate shopping.

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