Anyone found a connection between how someone is in bed/their preferences and how the person is in a romantic relationship? (Example: very gentle, very aggressive, etc.) Does it reveal anything?

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In general no, but IMO, a guy who doesn't care if you orgasm and enjoy yourself in bed will also be self centered in every other aspect of the relationship.

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Selfish is selfish, timid is timid. The rest is irrelevant.

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Good to know! For context — I’ve experienced someone who was really controlling and aggressive in bed and it’s traumatized me a little bit. I know it can feel good to ramp things up, but I’m now concerned it translates into the relationship and hope it’s not something that’s common.

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Might be worth talking to someone about ❤️

Not really.

People like a mix in bed, if they feel comfortable expressing the desire to try things out

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