If I get an offer of around 90-100k but am still interviewing at other firms and the recruiter asks me how much the offer needs to be to immediately accept, how much more should I say?
I tell myself that I've come to terms with my husband not being very thoughtful or helpful around the house. But I was sick last weekend and he didn't even unload the dishwasher or put away the laundry I'd already done, and when I asked him to help me by getting me drinks and stuff, he would tell me 'in a minute' because he was on his phone, and then he'd get to it eventually or forget. It's like, can you pretend to care just a little?
Hi Everyone - Hope you are doing well.
My wife and me just moved to NYC (from Chile). We are trying to find her a Job in NYC, but its been hard through LinkedIn. Do you know any other ways we could try to get at least interviews? She is trying to join a business develop. team, ideally in energy, but obviously opened for other industries as well. She's 5 years of exp. w/ background of M&A in EY and Business development in Energy.
Would appreciate any hints for this!
Thanks in advance!
Serious question - after another night in Chicago of multiple shootings and murders, why don’t we hold parents accountable. Not saying they should be charged as accessories but there should be some law around being accountable for your child until 18. If you neglect them we have a law about that so why not for allowing them to commit violent crimes.
Is anyone else in a position where you’re the most successful career wise in your family? How do you deal with the guilt? I can’t always share good news with family members (jealousy, fear of feeling like I’m leaving them behind, being expected to cover most of the costs, the thinking Im a show off) and it’s lonely that we can’t celebrate career milestones as a family.
Is it okay to add a manager, who I had an interview with on LinkedIn, even though I did not get the job?
I started Zoloft almost 2 months ago. It’s helped with my anxiety and depression but I’m worried I’m feeling the emotional numbing/blunting. I say this because 1) my car died and I did not care to call AAA until my bf insisted and 2) I have an interview for a job in 2 hrs I really want yet I cannot care to interview prep. I just feel so blasé about everything. I took off work thinking I’d interview prep but so far have just lounged around watching TV. Any advice? I need to get my head straight.
Heres my experience (based in Melbourne, Aus)
- 1 year grad project engineer
- 1 year grad product deisgner/engineer
- 6 months quality engineer
- 1.5 years mechanical engineer (consulting)
What salary do you think I currently should be on? Or should I ask at an interview?
Hi, I am a single-parent with a 9 year old daughter. Is anyone else dealing with same gender sleepovers with sexual exploration occurring? Exploring as in my daughter says outright “I am going to kiss you,” to her bestie before bed. Then after 15 minutes of giggling in bed I go to tell them to be quiet and see my daughter’s bestie is showing her buttcheeks to my daughter. To top it off they start trying to tell me they are laughing because they are reading “belly laugh books for kids”. Help.
I have a final round interview with American Express tomorrow. Does anyone have any tips? I’m a first-generation college grad, and this entire job searching process has been very humbling and challenging, to say the least. I have major imposter syndrome as well because no one in my family has made it this far. I’d love to kill this interview and give it my best.. any tips ?
Hi All, I have attended interview with Infosys business consulting last Saturday and submitted employment form. When can I expect call from HR ? What is the Salary range ?
YOE - 13.10
Proposed designation - Senior Consultant (next level is Principal, they don't have lead con in hierarchy)
I am undergoing interviews for "Cloud Security Advisor 3" position at OCI.
Team - Oracle North American Cloud Engineering (NACE), pre sales
YOE - 10
What sort of CTC should I expect/quote?
Do we have consulting roles in SAP? If so, what’s the package offered to 2 YOE?
And do we have department for this role in Delhi office?
What is the interview process?
I’ve been applying to a ton of Account manager and CSM roles and have not been getting any traction with my resume. I do have 3 yoe in sales. Would anyone be able to critique my resume? I’ve cropped out the personal details at the top. looking for some guidance 🙏🏾
Currently at 78k as C. Phone screened and told the recruiter I needed 95-100k. Interviewed and learned more about the role. Wouldn’t make the switch unless offer was 110-120k. Best way to approach?
I started a new job in May. I took a step down from Paralegal to Legal Asst. At my interview I was told that to them the title was interchangeable & I would be doing Paralegal work, especially considering that I knew how to do the heavy Paralegal work. But it’s been 6 months of tedious admin work & when I point out mistakes on pleadings, question case strategy or discovery methods, & suggest more effective ways to get things done, I get these weird looks or the brush off. What can I do?
I am currently interviewing for a management position, this will be the first management position I hold. I hold a masters degree and about 7 years experience in the business. Any advice on how to show I am ready/can handle this position? The only qualification from the job description I don’t hold is the management part.
Hate my job so much. Don’t know what to do or where to turn. Does anyone have suggestions?
Just got to know VISA doesn't give lease breakage/First month rent/first month rent its kind of they give either relocation of stuff or one of those things (Only 1 option) which is weird to me.. I thought they are big FINTECH company..also they economy class ticket ..which is super low.
Who drafts the job descriptions for AC21 porting? Trying to switch departments within deloitte advisory
Do any other analysts wear brooks brothers? I really want to start building it into my casual wardrobe but it's like 25-50% out of my comfort zone in terms of cost
Recommendations for PhD in marketing or growth marketing?
I want to continue working in a corporate setting. However, looking for some research based experience as I already have a masters in management.
Has anyone switched from accounting to software engineering or other tech careers? Would love to hear how you made the jump. Thanks!
Am looking for assistant manager post @hyderabad, vijayawada , visakhapatnam locations. I have 10 years of experience in ppc and am a sr planning executive at mrf tyres + ccna certified + nse 4 .
Do contact me on 6383830043 and email@example.com for any opportunities.
People on H1, if you get promoted in your company and the location doesnt change, does that require an H1 ammendment?
How do we feel about wearing a watch in a tuxedo? I’ve seen plenty of men wearing watches in a tux, but have heard it’s improper. Specifics in this case: standard black tux and a SS DJ41 with blue dial.
Lately I have little tolerance for big meals. I try to do IF and would naturally do it because I wouldn’t feel very hungry until noon and have a big lunch and a big dinner. In the past few months, if I eat a big meal, I bloat up. My body asks for small meals every 2 hours or so. This is very awkward socially or at office when I can’t eat much but keep feeling hungry so frequently. Do you think something else is going on that I need to check on?
Anybody here accept a loan with PenFed? They have really low rates but worried if there’s a gotcha I’m missing
Who has regrets about getting their MBA?
Anyone exit big 4 for a consolidations type role? Curious what it’s like. The company said they’re willing to move me into an FP&A role down the line which sounds more interesting, but I would need to do consolidations first
Does anyone work at a company and your boss says to other coworkers “ she makes to much money ? I’m salary and commission. My commission rate was reduced when I went salary in 2021 and lost OT and paid out PTO. My boss use to be then owner but sold us out . They are the VP until March . I work 14 hours a day for over a decade. I’m at my breaking point . I use feel so undervalued . The laziest people get praised.
Additional Posts in Relationships
So this girl i met at work. (She was working as a direct report and i asked her out once i changed roles and am no longer related to her professionally) And this is the first time i have permitted myself to open up after a 13 year relationship that ended a year and a half ago. We went on a couple of lunches together and told her that i liked the time i spent and asked her if she would want to continue to do things together? (She said yes) But now if i dont text her we pretty much..tbc
Can there be love if the partners physically abuse each other? I was shocked by a recent fight encounter of my friends. The girl and the guy were fighting and the girl first slapped him. Then the guy slapped her back. The guy was instantly guilty and started apologizing while the girl was crying. Eventually, they patched up and was cuddling in no time. Is this normal in most of the relationships or at least few? I am no one to judge their relationship but still shocked by the event.
Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?
I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.
I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?
I am about to meet my bf's parents who r frm different cast- culture all together. I m Hindu Rajput n they are Marathi Brahims.Although his parents said they are fine with marriage but i can sense they are not actually happy. They are taking it ahead just for the sake of it.Does this culture difference matters a lot after marriage.??
In-laws not liking me will be a problem after marriage.? What should i really focus on?? Is getting married be good idea in such scenerio ?
I deleted my dating apps for a while - is it rude to come back to previous matches who had reached out and explain I was off for a bit?
Met this guy through friends a few years back. He made me feel really special, told me he was going through a bad patch with his gf at that point. Things happened between us in a couple of months and
How do you know if someone likes you in the beginning of dating? I met this guy online who I thought was cute and we went on a few dates. He always texted me right after the date and always initiates another date right after or within a day. He’s been sweet to me (ie when I was packing for a trip, he noticed there’s dirty dishes in the sink and he just started washing them for me) but he never texts in between dates and doesn’t really initiates much physical contact (he reciprocates when I do)
I’ve been in a relationship now for two years. We are living together. We talk about the future etc. I could easily see myself marrying her. However, I have an issue… cont
Anyone married but still have feelings about your ex? Like you love your SO but still have lingering feelings?
How long have you been dating your SO, are you M / F, and how often do you see each other? What do you think is a healthy boundary?
Anyone else here an INFJ or ENFJ Myers Briggs type that absolutely hates the process of dating? It makes me feel so unlikable because I only want someone who can match my desire for intensity and emotional depth, but so few people actually can, and a good number will fake it for a few weeks before backing away.
My marriage is beyond repair I think. Husband just said we keep having the same conversations over and over in the past year about things we’ve been trying to fix. Is a year enough time? 11 years together for reference. And I don’t think his statement is true - he literally mentioned one of those things last week that he was happy about. I just can’t do it with these vague statements in arguments.
How does everyone else deal with work crushes?
My close friend has been more stressed about things lately. In the last 1-2 years I notice her increasingly complain everything and act cranky and rude to me and other people (unintentionally) often.
Gf’s mom and brother flew in at the beginning of July from out of the country. She hadn’t seen her parents since pre-Covid. We all moved her brother into his apartment in Chicago for his job out of university. Since then we’ve either been hosting both her mom and brother in our sub-700 sq ft 1-bedroom apartment. Or in her brothers 3 bedroom apartment (w/ roommates) where I feel like we’re imposing since it’s been so long. (continued)
My boyfriend is always on his phone when I approach him to talk about something enthusiastically like may be an incident at work or the vacation details I have planned for us. It’s not like he doesn’t listen to me, but instead of having an eye contact, he is always scrolling through Twitter or some app on his phone. It hurts me and makes me feel unloved/angry. Is this normal for guys? What should I do? Please help.
Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?
So I am in a city where my ex lives (nothing major, just a few dates at some point). He tends to watch and ‘react’ to most of my stories on Instagram. I asked him last night via insta if he any restaurant recommendations as I am here with husband and friends and we wanted somewhere fun to go. He hasn’t read it or responded, but clearly watched every single story. Isn’t that sort of rude? I don’t know if I have done something to annoy him but I don’t know how!