anyone have a SO who went to business school while you stayed in consulting? or vice versa? my bf is applying this fall and I’m irrationally worried about how it will affect us

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It’s going to be what it’s going to be. You wouldn’t want him to hinder your progress, so allow him to do this and if it means you break up, you break up. But some couples survive. They get engaged before or agree to move together.

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I’m currently at business school and my boyfriend is a consultant. Not ideal but it’s been an amazing few months so far with lots of travel. He doesn’t live in the same city (NY and philly) but his travel actually makes it easier to see one another. Happy to answer any questions!

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It’s not irrational. Staying together during business school is really tough especially if you are long distance. Is it in a different city? Will you move with him?

Well. Keep talking about it and be honest. Whatever happens just stay true to yourself and believe in the future. It will work out one way or the other

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