Anyone have any thoughts on support groups? Considering it but I also feel like I should beware

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I participated in a support group at church and it was very helpful. I recommend it. It helps you not feel so alone in your struggles.

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You can check with therapists in your area or just Google support groups. All people need community so there's no shortage of groups. You just have to find the one that works best for you.

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On it now, hope I find one soon

Nice! I’ve been struggling to find one since I don’t belong to a church

Just be on guard about MLMs. A lot of shady people infiltrate support groups to shill their brand of a pyramid scheme to vulnerable people.

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