Anyone have tips on navigating formal mentorship programs?

My assigned partner mentor would attempt to schedule meetings with me and then ghost me when I replied with available dates (this happened multiple times throughout the year so we never met) so then I reached out to the partner in charge of mentorship for my practice group, seeking a new mentor for the new year. However, she has also not replied to any of my e-mails. Kind of at a loss for the next step.

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Honestly I wouldn’t place your bets on the formal mentorship program. Even if you find the time to meet with your assigned mentor, there’s a solid chance that whoever the firm paired you with isn’t the right “fit” (for whatever reason). I have found in my experience that I have had better luck and better connections with people I’ve developed informal mentorship relationships organically (although it does take time)

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Try to grab coffee with people when possible and build relationships that way. Someone will eventually become an informal mentor. The best mentorships tend to develop naturally over time. While in biglaw I had a series of subpar mentors who sound much like yours. My attempts to connect and bridge clear gaps proved a waste of time. Sometimes you just don’t click with certain people. Good luck!

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Try working for different people, find the ones you like, stop by their offices and take them to coffee and volunteer to help them all the time. In a year or so you will have your mentors.

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