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I think you need to really intervene in this situation. I would seek therapy and potentially medication to try to pull yourself out of this. You may want to be honest with your coach and others in your life about what you’re going through so that they aren’t left to wonder, and you may also want to take a short leave of absence. It sounds like this is serious and you could use some time to sort out what you need to do to take care of yourself.
This is A LOT to process in a short amount of time. Therapy, therapy, therapy. No excuses. Just make the appointment. Now. Get off this app and go do it. Your future self will be so grateful.
Also, my experience is that the insurance listings are out of date at best and a waste of time anyway.
There is only one way to survive - self love. That means living in the present, that means making decisions that will have the best outcome for YOU. That means investing in your well being. That means not deriving your worth or happiness based on social norms or achievements at work. Find your deeper true self. You are not your thoughts. Healing will take time as there is no magic switch. Start by meeting a therapist who can really work with you to help you tackle the negative thoughts. Start a meditation practise to train yourself to live in the present. Start a journaling practise to process negative thoughts in a safe environment. Start an exercise regimen to get fitter. Here is something actionable that you can do immediately - make a list of everything in your life that you are grateful for that some other fellow humans don’t have. I know it’s very difficult to do it given what you are going through but still do it. Write it down, don’t think about it. Then read it to yourself.
True. I had the same experience last year and what really helped was compassion and acceptance. Everything else was like putting a bandaid on a fracture. Now I am doing much better. I have accepted reality and stopped the needless psychological resistance to what is.
Also, I forgot to add- I am so sorry that you’re going through this and I can relate completely. I promise there are better things on the other side of this if you will take the necessary steps to care for yourself.
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Take care of yourself. See a Medical professional and pursue a medical LOA to protect you. Sending good, healing vibes.
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Hey. I know how it feels as I am also at D and on visa. Feel free to DM me if you just want to rant and chat