Anyone here had a hard time letting go of their first property and renting it out? I love my home and put a lot of effort into it, so the sentimental value of it is making it hard to move forward with renting it out long term. I know that's silly, and I need to be realistic. I can get a great return (and I have another home). It just hard letting go. Any advice to change my mindset to feel less sentimental about it?

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Try to find a tenant recommended by a friend or co-worker. Then at least it makes you reassured it’s not some complete rando and if they are friends of your friends then likely I’d the same mindset. And pick a rescue dog lover…they tend to do everything they can NOT to get kicked out because so many landlords hate animals. ;)

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Money has no feelings

I get it. I think the key is to fall in love with your new home more.

Your feelings are totally normal. Knowing and understanding the emotions you may feel when you rent your home can help you manage and tackle them and may also help you make smart decisions. You should think about the investment return and embrace the joy of building a future and space for your family in the new home.

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Are we the same person??? I went through this last year. But the reality is, I want a new environment so I have to move. My friend also told mevI need to adjust my thinking: It's no longer my home, it's just my house. That helped. I'll still own the house, I'll just be renting it out. And that new income stream is a plus!

Struggling with this right now. Makes it easier that there is nothing to buy at fair value lol

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