anyone here have a mismatched [redacted] drive w their partner? how do you manage? F here w a higher drive than my M partner, both in our 20s

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Yo this ain't classified documents, no need to redact words like you're explaining Roswell. You can say the sexy word.

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At first I thought this meant ambition

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Same

I’d recommend a hefty investment in quality vibrators

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Sometimes the way we want to give/receive love doesn’t match our partner’s way of giving/receiving. That’s not to say you can’t figure out what you need from each other and show love that way. Think beyond [redact] and read The 5 Love Languages.

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I think you need to talk to your partner for his POV and see if there’s a way to get on the same page. You have a lot of options when it comes to sex. See what’s on the table for him.

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Your sex drive will probably only get stronger in your 30s, happened to me 6 months before I turned 30.

Suggest you talk to him and maybe a therapist for suggestions that would work for both of you? There are also sex therapists actually.

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It happens take the person as they are but know it won't get better if you cant live with that cut and run.

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Have you communicated this to your partner? Has there been an attempt to amend the imbalance?

I would contemplate how important all of this is to you before making any big choices, but ultimately if you guys can’t come to an understanding physically it can create some real issues down the line.

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Wow. I don’t know if I’ve ever heard of this. Let me know what might work. Your partner should try exercising while stressed.

/r/deadbedrooms

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Your bf needs to start smoking weed. That will help him get it up lol

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time to find a new one or open up the relationship :(

Get a side dude! You never know, your man could be into cuckhold

He isn't and I'm not. I would be weirdly into him with someone else though

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Sorry OP, been in the same boat for a while except I’m 32 M, and I’m so tired of it.

Never thought I’d say this in a million years because I love sex, but I think my sex drive is slowing down and I’m kinda welcoming it.

Yeah, kinda sad but I get that. I take Adderal for focus but also partially because it dulls my sex drive

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