Anyone here seen the Hulu show Normal People? I saw it loved it and bawled my eyes out. It really makes you think of the special person in your life that you had that kind of intense bond with. And the sex scenes are soo passionate and beautiful. Made me intensely miss my ex I had that crazy passionate once in a lifetime kind of connection

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I haven't seen that, but I have also been missing an ex where we had a super passionate relationship. Definitely hard to find. Feel your pain.

Yes, I had the same feelings. This show is beautiful

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