Anyone in here raising kids in Manhattan? Got an offer w more $ and less travel.. considering a move from the Boston suburbs, but it seems like a really hard life adjustment with a little one

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I would research COL in Manhattan thoroughly.

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Which Boston suburb? Grew up in New York, but wouldn’t trade Brookline for any amount of money.

Well, then you have my answer.

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Raising three little ones (ages 1, 5, 7) in Manhattan. We LOVE raising City kids! There are tons of families in the neighborhood and building, great parks, good schools (in certain neighborhoods). The kids are growing up exposed to so much diversity and culture, we walk to work and can easily make events at the school during the day, and love not having a car and walking or taking the subway instead.

“YUCK” would be my response to that offer.

Just live near the park — it makes it workable. Did it for six years with a young daughter and we loved it. But the park as an escape valve was necessary — above 78th street, the park is actually a quiet nature retreat. Below 78th it isn’t always an escape. Oh and be ready to be raped by the private schools.

Which is why I wouldn’t even think about it.
They’re leaving among the best school districts in the state with the best schools.
For...?
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New York is a lot more expensive, OP.

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