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Hi fishes,
Yoe 3.8years, java spring boot Microservices Developer .
Current CTC is 8lpa
Having an offer for 20lpa.
Still im looking out for a better offer. But for the past 40 days, im not getting even one offer that is above 20lpa.
Got selected for 6 to 7 companies after that. But they are not giving me more than or equal to 20lpa.
Any tips to get offers more than this 20lpa.?
Or this is the market limit for my experience?
Infosys Tata Consultancy Accenture TEKsystems Newco Amazon
Hi Fishes, how is the wlb in EY
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I don’t practice celibacy per se, but I’m definitely more selective on who and when I have sex especially now that I am more serious about finding someone
There was a whole thread about this a few weeks ago... it got kinda heated 🤷🏽♀️
Been celibate for about a year and I’ll admit it’s not a walk in the park. It’s very possible but you have to be dedicated and intentional about your commitment. I also stopped because I get emotionally attached easily and adding sex to the mix typically clouds my judgment especially when dealing with a guy who isn’t necessarily the best for me. I hope to keep it up until Im ready to settle down
Why practice celibacy when you can just pick guys that you won't get attached to but do find attractive? I kept a few boy toy(s) growing up (1 at a time only) that were specifically for hooking up. Each had a trait that I didn't want in my ideal husband (age, personality, etc) so it was easy to not get feelings. I enjoyed their company both on the bed and off, but it was easy to part ways if needed. When we were out, we’d be friends and play wingman for the other. It was quite empowering (think Samantha from Sex & The City). I'd start each fling stating the rules. No seeing other people, if you do find someone then be cool and break it off between us, even a simple text message was fine. Always wish the best for each other. Always respect each other. Always be cool about it and don't get clingy and crazy. Get tested before we start this. It was also always at his place as that was my way of staying safe. I had great experiences and men loved it. Only 1 fell for me (3 years younger than me and an intern at a different company in the same city) but it was cute and flattering. I fell for none.
When I was ready and found a guy I was actually interested in who had the qualities I wanted, I did the normal thing and dated and married him.
Not voluntarily
Ugh D2, we’ve all been there. Sorry