Anyone proposed to your SO that you dated for under a year? How did that play out in the long run?

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Personally, I believe you can’t put a time on it. Under a year relationship may be more connected/in love than a 5+ year relationship all taking account the logistics with time spent together, getting to know each other and families, living together (if applicable), experiencing hardships or celebrating wins, etc.

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Yup! Engaged at 9 months. Married now 3 years with a kid.

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Me. I was with my ex for 7 years and I feel significantly closer to my fiancé who proposed after 11 months together

Yes, now married 6 years w/ 2 kids.

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