Anyone tryna hookup in NYC? for the bi/gay men out here!!

I quit my job and hooked up with an ex coworker. That is all.

i think romance is dead. thought to share to this world

Helping out a former colleague on some freelance work but he is being too demanding and not paying me much. I neither have the time or energy and he knows it. How do I tell ‘em to fuck off?

Hi male here , any one interested msg me

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

What happens if a man pees inside a woman? Never happened to me but curious and want to experience if no side effects

All our boy friends in common keep telling me that he has a crush on me but yesterday when we were hanging out with some friends and they asked him about his crush he said " I don't know I think maybe I liked a boy instead of a girl". That made me confused is there something wrong I'm doing? Does he think I'm boyish or is that a common teasing technique ?

Started dating a girl- she’s got her shit together and to be honest, could probably do better than me. I thin she’s still dating other people - we have plans for tomorrow and I wanted to decide what we would do. she just told me that she can’t talk because she’s having dinner with a ‘friend’ and her phone is about to die. Don’t want to jump to conclusions but seems like a date

Ladies w PCOS, has anyone dealt with a decrease in libido from being put on BC pills? Mine killed my sex drive and made my hair fall out. I just got taken off it and put on Spironolactone. Cont..

Anyone waiting for the 2nd season of indian matchmaking??

For all the Indian men (who grew up in India, now working on visa or post student options in US) and trying to marry an Indian American citizen to expedite your GC/citizenship path, I have a recommendation for you.
Be honest about your status and forthcoming. Don’t play the ladies for your ulterior motives. What’s meant to be will be, however if you approach dating/marriage for status or hide your actual situation, surely it will not end well. Sincerity and honesty are very important values!

For those in NYC where do you go to meet woman? Without having to go get drinks? I don’t drink that’s why I said without drinks.

Hi, I'm new here, and I didn't know there was a dating feature but it seems cool.

Guys > 32, why do you think you're single?

I’m really into older women, just wish I knew where to meet them

Any F 25-30 (preferably Muslim) in the DC/Arlington area looking?

Any F in Minnesota?

New gf said she’s addicted to me. What does it mean?

30M, Fit, Indian, I am here to avoid arranged marriage and I don’t like dating apps :)

I’m remote till at least June. Been in the burbs with my parents but want to move out soon. If not NYC, where are most folks looking to work remote?

Dating question to male fishes. Do you really appreciate the girl more if she is less available? Can see you only few times a week, fun but slow response to messages.

Is online dating the way to go during this time of social distancing?

Instead of paying attention on the call, I kept looking at my own face. I also feel heckin cute too. Is this what modern day narcissism is?

I know this is a weird thing to complain about but I get hit on way too much when I’m out. Sometimes the attention is bothersome and overwhelming. I feel like I can’t relax and just drink because people are always trying to talk to me or touch me or get my number. Ive completely stopped giving out my number and just try to keep everything on Instagram DM. I don’t know if there’s really a solution for this but just looking to see if others deal with the same thing.

Best savings account to stick your emergency fund in?

I have offer from
Deloitte usi 14 fixed
PWC INDIA 16.5 fixed
For SAP fico role. Total relevant exp is 5 otherwise 8yrs.

Need your suggestion on which one to join.

Interested in making the jump from industry to consulting, currently 3 YOE with full rev cycle experience with a large health org, mixed with some automation and strategy work. Any particular firms I should be eyeing and what level should I look to be hired at, C/SC, or other? Possibly ways to get my foot in the door, etc.

Appreciate any insights!

Received a job offer for $145k base, 20% bonus. Also offering a $10k signing bonus. I'd actually prefer $150-155k base in lieu of the signing bonus. Has anybody successfully negotiated something like this? Also would be grateful for any tips on how to word the email to the recruiter...

Hi, I have Cleared technical round for automation testing. I got a oral confirmation from HR that I was selected. But not receiving any confirmation mail of selection or documents submission.
Anyone please help me on this.

Thanks in advance

Hi all look for some advice:

I recently signed an offer with a company and cleared the background to receive my welcome letter with onboarding info. They are now asking me about relocating to Chicago and I do not want to move as they are working remote at the moment. Is there a way of not having to move since my offer was signed with talking about relocating or even in the offer letter?

Looks like MBB requires SAT, had a 4.0 in college but only a 1410 SAT - will this kill my chances?

Is anyone else applying while in school for something else? Do you also feel pressured to be "perfect" since we need to attach transcripts to our application, where quantitative declines in performance are clearly visible?

My grades are not going to be pretty this term... Ngl it's a bit hard to not be bitter knowing that I can't disguise the clear quantitative tank in my performance while I could disguise it if I were working instead.

Did i completely miss the boat for on-cycle recruiting for 2022? Only recently started looking at buy side roles and just learned of the timeline for recruiting

Hi

in the workday after we have completed the Change Emergency Contacts, Manage Payment Election (account). what will be the next steps? so far nothing more communicated from HR.

thanks

Happy Diwali / Diwali week fellow Desi Fishes :)

Need other men’s perspective. Women can chime in too. Is it wrong to ask my husband to make all his calls to his family when I’m around. He was used to doing it in my absence for reasons unknown..cont

How does living in LA compare to a place like NYC? Never lived in the US before, I’m coming from Canada. Which city is better?

I’m available if anyone wants to take me to your holiday party in SF as your +1 🙊

Need advice.
I’ve met several friends through tinder, grindr, hinge. Strictly platonic friendships now. Have a boyfriend of 2 years who isn’t happy. Am I in the wrong for having those friends?

Will Deloitte do anything negative to you if they find out you are gay ?

In DC for Labor Day weekend with the bf. What are the fun clubs/bars here that we should try to hit up or any other cool events?

Is anyone here from the US, but lives/works in Europe or has in the past? If so, can I DM you with a few questions, please? 🙏🏼

My long-term partner and I are looking into buying property together. We’re not married and have no plans to do so... Any advice on how to set up the transaction/contracts to protect each of our interests in the property? Is it too simplistic to build equity based on how much we each contribute to mortgage payments? We both currently make good money but recognize that could change. Curious if anyone else has been in a similar situation and has helpful thoughts to share.

Heading to Chicago. What gay bars do you all recommend for a Friday night? I am open to anything, but not really into the leather scene. I do like older gentlemen though.

Any LGBTQ 🐠 in Singapore? 👀

Nov 7 weekend. come with me to Alaska? if you can't but have some recommendations, I'd love to hear them!

Anyone in Miami for the holidays? Couple here looking to checkout some clubs, always more fun with a group

Just finished rewatching RPDR S11. I have had many thoughts and revelations. I am pretty shook by obvious things I missed the first time around. Thoughts on winner?

Kissies to all of you 😘

Atlanta guys, wya?

Tfw the company who converted you (where you've been interning at for the last 6 months) emails you about an anomaly in your recently returned background check (your legal name) "just to make sure." 🤦‍♀️

Any F 🐠 want to chat? F mid 30s in the Midwest