Anyone who is scared of going to the doctors due to fear of receiving bad news about health?

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I believe my father could have been described in this way. He had health issues that he ignored and never addressed. Please don’t be like him.

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Bad news is scary, but is it scarier than worse news?

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That is literally the dumbest thing I've ever heard. If you don't go because you are afraid of bad news, imagine how much worse the reality will be because you took too long to find out about a treatable problem. (and in 2022 - basically every problem is treatable if you catch it early)

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Nah, you got this. As long as you go frequently they can basically solve even issues that can't be cured. Even AIDs isn't a death sentence anymore.

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You should be more scared about not addressing the bad news than about receiving it

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Me. I dreaded it but recently knocked out Dr., dentist and eye exam. Now I need a root canal but at least I don’t have AIDS.

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I just forced myself to schedule it one Saturday. Cleared my calendar so I didn’t have an excuse for anything else to do. As it’s been pointed out the fear is irrational but so is everyone so don’t let those anxieties keep you from being as healthy as possible!

Yeah I get anxious before every visit but I force myself to go every year

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I time my appointments after holidays. I figure if im gonna find out im gonna die, I would want to know after a holiday. That way I can have my last worry free holiday.
I've gotten some bad news before holidays and it stinks. Not only are you anxious during the holidays but also many labs are closed or delayed. So, you sit and wait. Luckily, they have all been false positives, but it still ruined my holiday.

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Nope. Go get your annual check ups. Better to catch anything early

Could you ask a friend or family member to go with you (and wait in the waiting room)? If asked just say they’re your ride.

No, that doesn’t make sense to me. You’re gonna give yourself more of an issue with the stress and anxiety. Why worry about something before it happens bc then if it does happen then you’ll have worried twice unnecessarily. Just go find out the facts.

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