Anyone who might have grown cartilage in knees back? I know - weirder things have happened.

I have a manager that does not seem to understand mental illnesses, disorders, etc. He thinks I am making excuses rather than trying to explain things (I have diagnosed ADHD, anxiety, and depression) and I’m trying to take ownership for issues but also help him understand what I am describing better as well. We are sitting down for a conversation later this week. Any advice on how to gently educate or help with his understanding of neurodivergence and other mental health considerations?

What are ways to deal with high latency mricroservice in a given region. Given that it's Cpu utilization is not exhausted.. So no vertical scaling ???

Got referred to fertility specialist after 6 months of trying (38 y/o) for our second child. We have Kaiser (CA) and was wondering if anyone had suggestions on what to ask on the first telephone visit or tips in general. Thanks.

Just found out my wife’s uncle had a heart attack and they had to take him to 4 hospitals to get treatment.... the 1st 2 wouldn’t admit him cause they said how do we know if has covid or not... the 3rd one said we can’t admit him cause he didn’t come in our ambulance ... WTF is happening in India ... another reason why India is still and will continue to be a 3rd world country!!!

Do any real people actually want schools to reopen as it stands now? Im hearing so much about it but it feels like a weird disconnected political thing and not a live humans with kids thing.
*Obv the goal is to get covid under control so kids can go back safely, this is assuming infection rates stay steady or continue to climb

Are there any work accommodations or benefits that you have at your company that help you to be productive with your ADHD? For example, having your desk away from foot traffic? What about those who work from home? Trying to figure out what might be helpful accommodations for those of us who are neuro spicy.

Have an interview coming up and I really hope I get it. I have been treated like crap since the day I began. Still go in with a smile every single day. And now its turning into built up depression

I went to a masseur in LV last week and this massage turned sensual. He texts me today saying he’s HIV + undetectable and he tested positive for gonorrhea yesterday. This was my first such massage experience and I feel my world has fallen apart. Our genitals touched and kisses. I did my tests this morning and waiting for results. 😌😌 why didn’t he share this before booking an appt! 😭

Anyone else still gets impostor syndrome (even with several years experience in software engineering)? Any tips you use to overcome it?

How many of us are worried that our feet will not fit into our dress shoes again without major pain and blisters?

Anyone hear about Equinox Sports Club being open to corporate all access members on weekends? (All access normally doesnt include sports club)

Just watched the exchange between Jim Jordan and Fauci in the House hearing. Also checked the comment section at both CNN and FOX. Boy people are so divided.

The current solution sounds like a compromise between both sides: you can go out; you need to wear mask. Neither side will be satisfied by this and will get more divided while cases grow.

“A consensus decision in a moment of crisis is very often going to be the middle of the road, and they’re usually the worst decision.” — Brian Chesky

Started using tretenoin and skin is super dry. Any recommendations? Ideally something that absorbs easily.

It's really strange to me how radiation can both cause cancer (melanoma) and also be used to treat various cancers

Anyone else prefer short acting meds? Which ones? The long acting stuff just strings me out for a long time rather than creating long periods of focus.

Just venting - In my 50 and tired of monthly periods with no end in sight. According to blood/hormone tests I’m pre/peri menopause. I hate the drier skin, hormone changes, thinning hair and weight gain (no matter how I adjust my diet and exercise the scale will not budge). Fortunately the one symptom I don’t have is hot flashes. Sigh. Does this get better at any point?

I’ve taken Adderall for several years & it has helped a lot for my ADHD. However, recently I have been increasingly overwhelmed with balancing work, school, & home life. I am really struggling to manage my symptoms even while taking the maximum ER dosage. I recently started taking Strattera as well, but haven’t noticed much improvement. My doctor has suggested switching to Vyvanse instead. What are your thoughts on Vyvanse vs Adderall? Has anyone has had more success with it?

folks who lift, how do you avoid calluses?

Lately I am feeling my life is excessively hard on me. From a difficult childhood to loosing a parent at a you age was really disturbing. I am going through therapy and my doctor want me to take drugs

Hey fishes,

My wife wants to switch her job from public sector bank to any good finance related private firm where she can utilise her core banking domain knowledge.
Any suggestions how we should proceed for this

Can anyone refer me to a job in Milan, Italy. I have over 12.5 years experience in IT and currently working as a project manager

Skill: SAP CRM consultant and agile product manager
Secondary skill: manual testing and test management

Background:
My wife has got a offer to study her Master's in NABA, Milan Italy which will start in Feb 2023. I would like to travel along with her if I can get a job in the available time.

Please let me know if it is possible, I will share my profile

Hi All,
Can anyone please tell me how can I shift to IT side... I am currently working in pharmacovigilance.
Please tell me any relevant course for the same so that my PV experience can get counted. Is SAS programing an option? TIA

What is the top pay for Monitor Technician (Telemetry)in the Florida area with 4 years experience?

Have any of you who are behavioral health therapists/psychologists remained in touch with prior patients/clients? I would be interested to hear about your experience with this including what kind of boundaries you set. Thanks in advance!

Does EY revoke I140 if you leave EY after 6 months of I140 approval?

ʜᴇʟʟᴏ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ! ᴀɴʏ ᴄʜᴀɴᴄᴇ sᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ʜᴇʀᴇ ʜᴀs ᴡᴏʀᴋᴇᴅ ᴏʀ ɪs ғᴀᴍɪʟɪᴀʀ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴅᴏᴜʙʟᴇ ᴏʀ ʙᴏʟᴅʟʏ? ᴛʜɪɴᴋɪɴɢ ᴏғ ɢɪᴠɪɴɢ ᴇᴀ ᴀ ᴛʀʏ ʙᴜᴛ sᴛᴀʀᴛ ʙʏ ᴅᴏɪɴɢ ɪᴛ ᴀs ᴘᴀʀᴛ ᴛɪᴍᴇ ғɪʀsᴛ ᴛᴏ sᴇᴇ ʜᴏᴡ ɪᴛ ɢᴏᴇs.

ᴀɴʏ ɪɴᴘᴜᴛs ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ.

ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ᴀʜᴇᴀᴅ! 🙂

ᴘ.s. ʟɪᴋᴇs ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ sᴏ ɪ ᴄᴀɴ ᴅᴍ

Hi Fishes

I have an offer and I plan to sending my resignation mail.
In my current CTC, I have a consulting bonus which will be given end of 1 year completion. (1Lakh).
I'm in the 11th month now. If I apply for resignation now, will I be entitled for the bonus next month ?

Onsite gyms: Have you opened the company gym post covid? If yes, what restrictions have you put in place to avoid an outbreak?

What’s the monthly living cost in Dubai for a couple including rent?

Does anyone in here work exclusively with B2B enterprise marketing using paid ads on Google and Facebook?

How is job security in bny mellon in recession time ? Please comment if any idea

Fish of Indian origin, anyone applied OCI from SFO? how long did it take and how much effort (L/M/H) you needed to apply? Did you need to send US passport as well?

Today’s Uber driver: Jumanji. Have a good day!

Any firms hiring in the healthcare space? Was laid off due to covid-19 a few months ago and would love some help getting back to work. Thank you In advance for the help/suggestions.

So did Deloitte fire anyone yet? Or are they waiting until tomorrow? 😂

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve done while working from home?

Any recommendations for Philly? Taking a quick trip there this weekend.

When traveling for work through LAX, do you get Uber blacks for curbside pickup or do you take the bus to the lot for an UberX?

folks who lift, how do you avoid calluses?

Lifters who use an apple watch:

What are your go to lifting apps?

What is the better option- to leave alcohol or to leave sweets. End goal - to lose weight. Can’t leave both at the same time !

Any ab circuit recommendations?

Can anyone recommend some good resources (books maybe?) for learning about intermittent fasting? Seems to be a lot of contradictory crap online.

Need a pep talk! I've gotten into the habit of snacking/eating out of boredom or when procrastinating, so I decided to mentally hit reset and do a monk fast today (36hrs, not my first one). I'm soooo hungry though 😭 trying to stay strong

Dedicated peletoners: did your thighs/quads grow or shrink?

Was wondering if anyone may share a promo code for registering to Army 10 miler at Pentagon City, VA

I’m a single 29 year old guy and I’ve been staying with my parents through the pandemic. Still have an apartment 2.5 hours away from my parents so I go there once and awhile to chill by myself. Every time I go to my apartment I realize there’s nothing in this city for me other than my job as most my friends are in my hometown or elsewhere. I just sit in my apt alone and end up drinking and missing my family. Anyone else experience this? Should I just move back to my hometown despite...

Anyone has a promo code to the “Lose it” app?

31 M 5 foot 8 200 lbs. muscular build. I want to get to 180 and know strength will take a hit. Has anyone experienced weight loss while maintaining muscle mass? Lifting 4-6 times a week for 45 mins. Cardio 1-2 times and that’s like a 15-20 min walk at most. Diet 75% vegan. How can I drop this weight? I’m fine to eat like a dog and have the same meals every day I just need someone to tell me what to eat and when.

How to deal with change? 1 year out of college and living with 3 of my best friends, just talked about living together for next year but they are all moving to new cities. Another friend is moving to my city so I’ll be living with them but I can’t help but feel a little lonely/like a huge stage of my life is over. Any tips for dealing with this change? I guess I also feel a little guilty because I’m pretty covid conservative so I’ve turned down social outings this past year because of that.

*Women who have gotten a boob reduction due to back pain* what was the process like? Does insurance ever deny it?

Any suggestion on easing constipation when on business travels? I know this is awkward but I am really in need of help. 🥲

Hi everyone I have been having major energy issues lately. Once it gets dark, the second it gets dark my energy levels just drop and all I want to do is lay on the couch and watch TV, and lately that’s been around 4:30 pm here. Any recommendations on how to get over this slump?

Does anyone have any quality women’s shoe recommendations for walking 15-20 miles a week? Are Allbirds the way to go? I have been wearing Hokas for a while and am looking to change things up.

No change in diet/exercise, but have accumulated multiple cuts - including deep cuts - on hands that have not healed (whether due to nutrient deficiencies or stretching of skin from all the handwashing). As natural healing will not occur without action, what are some measures I can take and specific products (moisturizers are not enough) I can apply to expedite this healing process? I developed Pavlovian symptoms to refrain from moving hands beyond neutral position for pain/damage prevention 😭

Any suggestions for healthy self help books? Or healthy eating or understand why we get cravings? Looking for self help books alone those lines to help get my eating right