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Anyone with later miscarriage experience willing to chat? Just lost our baby at 15 weeks, from our only embryo after a brutal IVF journey. Struggling to see any path forward right now.

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So sorry :( we lost our first pregnancy at 12 weeks and it was awful. We ended up doing fertility treatments because we couldn’t get pregnant again. Infertility snd loss are both so so tough. Sending you hugs. Your OB or RE might be able to link you up with some in person support groups in your area, too. Those were super helpful for me! 💕

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I’m so sorry. I can’t speak to a later miscarriage but I’ve had 5 early losses after almost 3 years of IVF. Some days it’s unbearable. I’m happy to chat if you need someone to talk to.

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