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I'm a very happy and positive person generally. But it's tougher now since I just moved to a new city, where I only know 2 people. All of them have boyfriends and spend every night with them. I don't know what to do with myself. So I make the best of it by joining different classes, going to movies by myself, exploring the neighbourhood, doing diy projects and just keeping busy. Things are obviously not the same as they were in college, but things change, and life goes on. Try to find your source of happiness guys. It helps. No point in being depressed and lonely

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Almost happy except for being friend zoned by a woman I really liked... obviously it happens to everyone but after 30 you just don't meet a lot of women you really like... life goes on

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Can I answer in harvey balls?

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What is happy?

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EY3 - like your approach to life!!!

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Happiness is a choice not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you chose to be happy. No person, job, vacation will make you happy until you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you. It can only come from you...

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Naw...

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TBD

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Fuck no. Suicidal.

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Nope

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Yes E3! I am a work in progress but on the upswing to happy. I went through a lot in 2016 hit my lowest point ever and decided I need a change, I moved back home. My family is here but I literally have 1 friend here. I get super lonely sometimes but I have been doing a lot of DIY and new workout classes. I know I'll eventually meet new people just need to be patient. This time with myself has been the best things.

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Nope I fucking hate my job!

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Yes I am ☺️

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Not completely but finding it is my NY resolution!!!

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Well, I'm not UNhappy. But it would be cool to have an SO again, wish I had a few more close friends in my city, but that's about it. Also need to start working out again.

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Not really. But not completely unhappy either. Somewhere in the middle.

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I HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY suggest everyone who is not happy to watch the TED talk on synthetic happiness. Changed my life.

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Gotta love the posts from these associates who are searching for the meaning of life.

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Life is pain and figuring a way out if it.

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