As a young person, I feel like the senior members at my company are unapproachable, but I want to learn from their experience. Any tips for reaching out?

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Just message them, tell them you'd love to learn from their experience, and invite them to lunch next week. I've NEVER turned down lunch and love talking and mentoring. I have to assume most people in a leadership position will be the same way.

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Agreed but another thing to consider is bringing the senior person a value proposition…if there were 10 mentee candidates all vying for mentorship, what do you bring? Perspective? A fresh approach? Information only you can provide? Attitude? Even the attitude that the Exec has a lot to do and this isn’t pure altruism for them may make you stand out. There’s a lot written on this topic of how to be a good candidate for mentorship.

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The lunch idea is good. You could also just ask for a 1-1 meeting with them. Explain what you said here, that you are looking for a chance for mentorship, etc. I think you will find many of the receptive to the idea.

Yes. Old people LOVE lunch

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