Asian immigrant 46yo F, 2 kids and hubby(very good home runners but no relationship for years); no family or friends close by. I have very hectic work life but remote. Today as I sat on my couch packed with medication from surgical procedure, I am feeling lonely. Would love to make friends and be in a relationship; go out with them; drink, watch movies and have some fun. Once a month, if possible. I wish!!

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MeetUp is a great place to meet people with similar interests (so I hear)

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Came here to say this. Meetup is great for this. There are Meetups for just about any sort of interest. I've met cool people from it. Haven't made lasting friends, but that's moreso from me not going to one group's events consistently.

Where are you located?

East coast

You need to fix that in a relationship piece. It’s not fair for your kids futures to see the type of relationships their parents form on the side.

As ironic as it is, you need to allow your kids to see the possibilities of a future loving life, instead of one devoid of it. Let them know that parents may not be together but each individual can still having loving relationships.

I’m sorry you’re not receiving affection or comfort though, that really sucks.

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Hi
Hope you are doing well

I was working with Mindtickle.
And unfortunately got laidoff from Talent Acquisition team.

I'm looking out for change as Talent Acquisition, would you mind to refer in your current organization Or can refer in your connection if someone has the opportunity.

Location - Delhi NCR /Remote
Exp- 5+year. Relevant (2.3year)
Notice- Can join immediate

Regards
Aditya

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