Asking my friend to be one of my bridesmaids this weekend. Doing the others around Christmas. Should I have her wait until everyone has been asked before she posts on social media? Kinda seems like a weird rule unless that’s the norm now.

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Perfectly reasonable ask.

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Yes - I think that's a reasonable ask to have her wait til the new year! Don't want to have hurt feelings etc. as I'm sure you'd want to ask others in person.

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