At the rate my dating life is going, I‘ve come to terms with the fact that I will likely die alone 🥲 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Stay strong OP. The right one is out there for you. It always works out in the end. In the meantime, sending you a hug !

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Just find someone here.
Welcome all DM’s.

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Well, this went a lil sideways lol.
(I don’t condone the above).

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Welcome to the club.
It sucks

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What are you even talking about d1

It’s not easy out here! Idk what I’ll do if I hear “it’s a numbers game” one more time 🥹🔫

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OP, I was on apps for seven years before meeting my person at 32. I have no idea why it worked out when it did, so I have no cheesy sayings of encouragement like the ones we were complaining about, but all hope isn’t lost for you yet!

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This is where you ask for ASL 😎

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Same here

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Hmm okay. What else can I ask you? Trying to get to know more about you

Don’t give up 🥺🧐

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ooh ooh! choose me! 😤

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If you’re a heterosexual woman, then statistically speaking, you’ll likely outlive your male partner. So most of us will “die alone” in that sense. And the only way to not “die alone” is to die first so… yeah.

I know it’s easier said then done, but here’s a life hack: instead of worrying about the marital status you’ll have at the very end of your life, worry about how you’re living all the days before then — your happiness, well-being, the memories you make, the experiences you have, the friends and family you love.

Life is short. Why waste the little time we have on this spinning rock in a constant state of trying to find someone … instead of finding and enjoying yourself.

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By no means would I say that I’m stressed about my marital status. I’m content enough to be single but wouldn’t mind having someone to share life’s moments with. I think we all crave companionship in some form or another.

I have no immediate family in the states aside from my parents, and unfortunately they aren’t going to be around forever. That’s a very sad reality that I’ll eventually have to face. Close friends are either at the married or coupling stage so it’s not the same as before. My point is - the constant circle I have currently aren’t going to be around forever, so it’s a very likely scenario of me dying alone 🤷🏻‍♀️

HMU OP, happy to provide some virtual company. You're not alone in the bowl 🍜

Just learn to become a masochist and enjoy the pain

There are steps you can take to increase your chances of success. Don’t give up on yourself, do the hard work.

I’m single too, 28, in NYC. Just dm you

Do you have unrealistic high standards in men? (Must be over 6’3” must make over 7 figs, ect) if so widening the Dating pool might make sense..

There must be blue collar men that would be more than happy to be with a confident professional women..

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