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At what age do you feel like a grown ass adult? Just hit 30 but mentally I feel like a kid. I’m sure it varies for everyone…

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Still feel like a kid most days and my youngest dependant is about to move out.

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Didn’t feel it until I had dependents

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I have dependents and that made me feel more of a kid than before.

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I'm 23 and sometimes when people ask how old I am I completely forget bc I feel like I've been an 18 year old for 5 years now

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I feel this too. When I was 21 at the DMV I told the lady I was 18 on accident ... got some suspicious comments

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This year at 27 when I got my own apartment, no roommates. Living alone is both incredible and sometimes lonely but really makes you feel like an adult.

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30 with our first kid on the way. I feel like a child having a child. Someone please help lol

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You are correct! Your going to end up sharing toys with your kids

I finally felt like an adult a couple of weeks ago when I wandered around my house turning off all of the lights that my 4 year old daughter had turned on, all the while grumbling to myself “well, shit. This is why the house is so hot….”

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"grown ass"

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20. It was a decision to step up as much as I could in life. It was either that or fail miserably.

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You're only young once, but you can be immature forever.

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Are your parents still paying for any of your bills?

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When I had a kid. Makes you get your sh*t together real quick.

Wife and I just bought our first house - signing that inches thick mass of paperwork and assuming responsibility was a real “welcome-to-adulting” moment

Take this from someone who was forced to be a grown up in their late teens and early 20’s, enjoy and relish being a kid at times.

I’m 32 and still fee 25/26. Not married, no kids (yet)

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