At what point do you think you should move in with your significant other or at least talk about it?

Is it messed up to want my gf to move in with me for financial reasons? We have been together for 6 months and about 4 months in I knew I wanted her to move in. But then things got really rocky. After that happened I realized I now would have to wait for us to build some foundation before asking her to move in. I am now thinking about it and her moving in would be the easiest move ever for her. It would also save her about $1k/month. She is looking at places near my place also. (cont.)

How is B4 life when you have small kids and a nonworking spouse?

I'm struggling to get into a relationship. I've been trying for at least two years now (I'm in my late twenties), but I don't seem to find a man who's good enough for some reason. I want to settle down soon enough, but I'm also not rushing this or keeping a timeline, because finding the right man is important. I see so many of you guys here in long-term relationships. Does anyone have any tips? Feel free to get into my DMs.

Any reccomendation for a good daycare in the smyrna vinings area. I have 3 year old and 1 year old and struggling to find a spot for them. Hoping to pay around max 1600 per kid.

looking to start a family. Prob 1-2 kids in the next 5 years - should I wait till I leave big law? I'm nervous about what time is crucial to be around the newborns. Adoption if relevant. Any advice?

A guy who is claiming to be in love with me (a black woman and immigrant), is a conservative (pro-trump, anti-gun laws, denies that there is racism etc). Are those red flags to make me cut him off?

Graduated law school, passed the bar, and started my job last summer. My wife and I got pregnant with our first sooner than we expected, and we're due in June. Any general tips/advice?

Dad lost significant life savings few years back and his relationship with mom got worse at the same time. He now thinks he has a disease that is getting worse daily. Taken him many psychiatrists...

What are some habits, biases, cultural expectations, or other aspects of parenting that you don’t want to pass on further to your children?

Deloitte Folks: I’m applying to a position that requires the “up to 80% travel.” How does that work for you? What’s your typical week like? Don’t necessarily like being away from wife/family so much.

Inspired by my first heartbreak. A painful time in my life that I couldn’t make sense of it.

We’re here to support each other, laugh together, heal together, and get back on our feet!

Do you think it’s worth waiting for Black Friday sale for strollers etc.? Or generally there are no discounts on baby stuff. Wondering if I should buy now or wait - baby is due in Jan.

How do you handle being sick when you have babies at home? I’m sick and quarantining, my wife may be getting sick, and our night nurse just called out with the same exact symptoms I have. We have 2 month old preemie twins who were already hospitalized once with RSV (near fatal) last month. WTF is all I can really say.

Well, I was the one who broke it off. I couldn’t get him to love me the way I needed or even respect me enough. It’s been 6 weeks of not seeing each other. We messaged this week. He doesn’t get it…. His messages show he still doesn’t know what he wants. Yet, if I am totally honest, I hate how part of me wishes he would do a grand gesture/finally decide to be a better man. It’s delusional. It’s crazy how love can be so rosy, sweet & blinding that the red flags seem surmountable.

Thoughts on having a baby 👶🏾 with a surrogate in West Africa or the Caribbean ? Also looking towards Mexico.

Hey. I’m going to a business trip to a fun area, but my colleagues are a lot older 55-65? Would it be bad to hit up Bumble BFF/Hinge to meet some people to have fun w after work? Idk what to do w my life.

One of my church members passed away today. Please keep his family in your prayers. He had four children, all under the age of 20. So it will be difficult for his wife to continue on.

Hi fishes,
Need your advice.
Joined tcs 4 months back and now I resigned. I been mapped to us client project from day 1 I joined tcs and got good appreciation in the 3 months of time that I can do any assignment tasks from client.

Now I got offer from Telstra as a permanent role which was my earlier client and I resigned in tcs.

CTC in tcs is 16 lpa and now in telstra it is 20 lpa .
Yoe is 8 .Now they are offering me H1 in retention.egat else can I ask them for retaining or what would be best advice for me.

What are the typical exit options for FDD? Not rare cases

Hi everyone, I’m in asset management at a real estate firm with 2 years of experience in my current role and 5 total years of experience in finance. What should my comp range be?

How can I resign after 4 days of training ?

How hard is it to start practicing in another jurisdiction? Big law is mostly federal anyways

What do attorneys even wear to work? Do you find more are in casual clothes than suits and ties?

Anyone have recommendations on firms that specialize in intellectual property and hire recent graduates? (Living in NYC but not limiting myself geographically)

How’s American Express as an organisation for UI/UX designers. Is it true that you have to work during the US hours and it’s pretty stressful. Is it true?

If I joined verizon in June / July 2022 would I be eligible for hike in Jan 2023 / March 2023 ? What's the hike percentage like ?

Can anyone who has recently lateraled to a different investment bank speak about how their interview(s) were? How many were there and what did they ask you? Is it mostly deal related questions or did you have to memorize the guides again?

Hey, I am very much interested in working for Agoda. Are there any referral leads? I applied for a few roles but did not get get any response yet. Any leads would be highly appreciated :)

Hey Guys,

I have total 1.8 years of exp
6 months internship as a business functional analyst and 1.2 year of experience as a business systems analyst -- i got ECBA certified -- I am hunting for full time functional analyst jobs.
What ctc can I ask for ? I am thinking for asking around 10 lakh ctc ? Please provide your opinions 🤠

How do you get enough protein per day? Trying to put on some muscle and aiming for about 200g of protein each day and I am struggling to even get near that!!

Hi,
How is KPMG FRM as a team in terms of WLB and growth, learning opportunities?
I gave 2 rounds of interview and the feedback might be positive considering how the interview ended.

Are there any actual good Risk projects ?
Thanks

Recommendations on where to find quality vintage jewelry?

How much hike a company can provide to a candidate who is switching job just after 3 months from one big4 to another. Major reason for change is work life balance.

Anyone have any troubles with domain scalpers? Any tips on how to purchase the desired domain back? Not even sure how to get them to respond to my emails. Help plsssss

I'm considering canceling a job interview because I got another offer and I'm not interested in the company at all. Bad idea?

I’ve been with my bf for 18 months and we have not said ‘I love you’ to one another. I keep hearing about how the best/healthiest relationships are a slow burn, you’re friends first, grow to love each other, etc. I’ve never been in a relationship as emotionally slow as this one. It feels like we are friends who sleep together. I can’t tell if it’s healthy or if we just have no emotional spark. Idk... I feel like wanting romance is not a bad thing, right?

If a guy stopped responding to me mid convo, would it be okay to maybe message him again in a month or so? Don’t want to double message as I don’t know him that well

33 and still don’t think I want kids. Does that every change?

Long-distance relationship - what are the tips and practices that can help maintain the relationship for couples ~5 years into working?

I am long distance with my boyfriend and am feeling really unsettled about our relationship. We’ve been together 9 months, and long distance for 4/ 9. I love him and am lonely while distanced, but super happy with our relationship. I’m unsettled about the future and if we will be happy together in the future. I do not want to move to where he is located and he does not want to move here. He definitely wants kids, and I’m younger and more unsure. He’s a suburbs guy, and I want lavish city life.

Is this group still popping or??

What’s a reasonable Christmas gift to a girl who I’ve only dated less than a year?

Is it wrong to have sex with someone after a break up of a 3 year relationship?

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

F, 32 years old here: Why is it that guys are so boring with their responses when chatting on dating apps? Are most guys just boring? Or are they just not interested (then why like my picture or match with me??)? I always feel like I’m the only one making jokes/trying to liven up the conversation.

Has anyone stayed in contact with an ex because they genuinely were a good person in your life at the time? I find it hard to completely block someone out just because you may have been incompatible in building a future together, but I’m curious how often you chat moving forward?

How do you get over someone you never dated? I know this person is not right for me but I can’t get it off my head

New gf said she’s addicted to me. What does it mean?

How to handle your emotions in a less sex ( not no sex), and low quality sex marriage?

It's emotionally depressing for me when we don't make out, getting ugly thoughts of breaking up.

Although I also do understand this should not be the ground for destroying the family, but the lack of it creates a vacuum in me.

I’m happy with my relationship but the thing is I never really have a spark with the girl. Can someone relate or explain? I’m not sure if I should keep doing this. Maybe I’m just in an comfort zone now?

Hi - wondering if anyone has any vegetarian dinner recipes that would wow my GF? Trying to surprise her with dinner this weekend. Thanks in advance

Been with a girl for years. We get along well and enjoy each other's company. We're comfortable around each other, and I've generally been happy with her. As we've begun talking about marriage, I'm really giving some deliberate thought as to whether she's the right life partner for me. I'd pondered it before, but our relationship progressed very organically so never gave it too much serious consideration.

Now that I think of it, cont..

Got ghosted by a guy I was talking to for 4 months who also told me he loved me. Completely confused and totally discouraged from dating now, can’t trust anyone smh.