Bachelorette horror stories? I’ll go first, I got injured and asked if we could stay in the pool at the hotel the night before our 8am flight and the bridal party alienated me & didn’t talk to me until we left and even went out that night without me.

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It sucks, but they’re there for the bride (assuming you’re not the bride), what she wants to do, and everyone spent money to be there. The injury sucks, but I would’ve been fine with them going about their plans versus staying at the hotel with me on the last night. Again, that’s only if you’re not the bride to be.

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Agreed with them continuing their plans if I chose not to join. For background, they planned to stay at the hotel suite in the hot tub during our last night of the trip since we had to leave early the next day. I got dressed for the hot tub and then they said we’re actually heading out, but I couldn’t go since my hand was badly injured and they wanted to go dancing for a few hours which was completely acceptable to me. What I didn’t appreciate was that they ended up coming back to the suite in less than an hour and then went to someone’s room and stayed up the whole night talking without even checking if I’d like to join even tho I was in my room with the lights on. They didn’t even ask how my injury was today even tho my injured hand was visibly swollen and while I tried to make conversation I got cold responses. It’s just sad to go through this when you pitch in just as much as everybody else and try hard to get along as you’re the outsider, the bride and other bridesmaids have been friends since middle school.

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What do you mean stay in the pool?

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Not sleep in the pool, but spend our last night of the trip in the pool/hot tub chilling/drinking.

Oh man. Helping my friend plan her bachelorette now and it’s already so much drama. I just know shits gonna go down during the actual trip 😂😂

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Hope it goes off without too many (hopefully, only minor) hiccups!

I dealt with caddy women who feed on drama but that's something I've encountered other places so it didn't feel to bad. I chose to focus on my friend, she was happy so I was happy. I think they were more irritated at the fact they couldn't get to me.

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are they still invited to the wedding?

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