Been dating somebody on my project for the last 3 months. They recently got out of an engagement. Ex's Instagram shows signs they are getting married still. What do I do?

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Seems like she didn't recently get out of engagement

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Relationships = communication. Literally, show them that post if you can't say the words out loud.

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Problem #1: you are dating a teammate

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OP - I thought the genders were switched, due to the ambiguous pronouns usedbefore. So you're a female? He's clearly cheating. Seen this several times with friends/acquaintances/colleagues. What a f*cking ass.

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Sorry for the pronoun confusion! I am a girl and he is an asshole! 😬

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Don't sweat it until you know it's going somewhere

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Define "dating". Sounds like you two are hooking up/you're the side piece

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Hahahahahahaha C1 nailed it

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Also, with the ambiguous/incorrect pronouns, I'm assuming both of you are guys, and the ex is a woman.

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I am going to end it this week and hopefully they are mature about it and things aren't too weird at work. Fortunately it is a short term project. I live in NYC, plenty of fish in the sea so no reason to continue in a situation that is clearly sketchy even to people who don't know me.

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Well enjoy the dating and action. Keep the hunt on.

I'm scared to bring up the Instagram because I don't want to seem creepy.. Though I don't think it's entirely out of line that I would look. But yeah, dating a teammate is really where the problem is. Even if I end it, I still have to work with him on a daily basis.

OP he's clearly cheating on his fiancé. I don't think he has a right to judge that you happened upon his Instagram. And don't keep seeing him just bc you're afraid to end it.

Sounds like you're the side chick, OP. Not healthy to dwell on it, just remove yourself and let karma take its course

Gurl - still with the pronouns. They is not a substitute for he or she.

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