Been out of consulting for 6 mo. now. Still have dreams replaying all the times people were asked to cancel holiday, women were demeaned, the ethical gray areas, and I didn't speak up. Therapy time?

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Time to come back to the island.

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Refer me to google ! I ll be your counselor 😊

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I am living the trauma right now.

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How did you land your Google gig?

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Just quit because of that without having something else lined up - what are you doing for Google?

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@D1: I blew a whistle on a project I'm on and my boss gave my a $1500 spot bonus

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@P1: Referred, passed interviews

OP which firm were you at before?

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