Been texting a guy for a few weeks. Was going to ask if he wanted FT, but now he doesn’t seem super interested because he texts me back every few days (used to text more). Is it weird to just ask

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Just let him go. If he was interested he would be texting. You don’t even have to ask, you know the answer.

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yeah you’re right.

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“Hey xxx, I’m getting the feeling you’re not that interested. No hard feelings, I hope you find what you’re looking for.”

That way you’re not ghosting, and get closure

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Don’t say this. Just let this one go

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I’m a huge proponent of asking for what you need, no one is a mind reader and everyone has their own stuff going on that they might not be sharing with you yet. If you’re interested in ft ask, if he doesn’t answer/says no you have your answer, imo better than wondering.

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If a guy is interested, you will know. failure to communicate is a pretty clear sign of declining interest. Just move on.

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What does ft mean?

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facetime

point blank if he’s still interested? Just don’t really want to waste each other’stime and can’t tell if he’s just too nice to completely ghost. he also said he has trouble communicating so not sure if I should consider that as well.

There’s a quote I think every woman should remember that goes something like...if you’re not sure if he’s interested, then he’s not interested...because you’ll know when he is

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