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They prob found someone else.
He responded casually, as your casual situation. Since you’re reading into it, I’m hoping that you don’t have high expectations of the situation and if you do, make sure he is aligned before you put it more effort.
Gosh everyone “reads into” texts way too much when the honest answer is - we all kinda suck at communicating and texts don’t convey context in our heads. If you want to see the person again, either be direct and say you’d like to visit them or be direct and ask if they want to see you again
Maybe they think that now that they have this Saturday commitment they won't have time for you if you come. Maybe ask about the commitment and be like " or I guess if you have xyz every Saturday maybe it's best to wait till you free up?" And see if they push back to insist you come
"You're welcome to come!" How to interpret this? I want to ask what changed but not sure how it will be received...
Or - reading too into it?! #help
I wouldn’t put in the effort based on what you are outlining, they seem ambivalent. If they want to see you, they come. Don’t hang high hopes on this one.
I had a one night stand with a hot lawyer at a wedding once. He kept texting me and texting me and I was like okay, maybe this is a real thing? He lived in Boston and I lived in dc. So I was like okay, I’ll flex trip out to you and he was like “yea, that could be fun, I’ll see if I’m free (something totally Luke warm like that) so I didn’t bother responding since I was confused and thought I’d let him come back to me if he really wanted to see me again. Never did and never talked to him again.
I honestly think he kept texting me because he felt guilty about a one night stand. Whereas I was recently single and could have cared less haha. That or he just like someone to text with. Was super strange to me.
He’s texting you to keep you on the line and “begging” to see you because he wants to continue hooking up! It’s fun, it’s flirty, why not? Doesn’t mean he’s actually interested in progressing the relationship, which it sounds like you have hopes for?