Being an IT guy ,is it a wise decision to marry an IT professional.

Please share your views and experience on this

Relationship is going pretty well apart from my partner being pretty unhealthy… I like to eat clean in general but she doesn’t like veggies and I’m a little fearful for our future family if she’s just encouraging them to “eat what you feel like” is there anyway to help change this behaviour? Any suggestions? It’s not like I never go eat fast food or what not, just that our frequency of consuming desserts has increased exponentially after we started dating and she doesn’t exercise either

Do you have more than 1 good friend at work?

My bf took a guys trip to Caribbean to celebrate a good friend of 20+ year’s milestone bday. The friend’s bday is the day before mine. Normally bf and I trip for my bday over the holiday weekend. Bf will be back for my actual bday, and we’re taking a domestic trip next weekend. That said, I still feel a little miffed that we’re not spending this weekend together like normal. Are my feelings unreasonable?

How’s your work-life balance at the moment? Do you think research positions allow enough time for us to spend with friends and family?

What is the latest in your pregnancy you would feel comfortable with your husband traveling? My husband is planning out his travel work schedule and is asking me and I’m honestly not sure!

Happy holidays, fellow introverts! Hope you find time to decompress in between family conversations, even if it’s hiding in the bathroom for a few minutes to re-energize.

American society would be in a better place if all of the “woke” young Americans of European descent used the same energy to talk with their loved ones who are bigoted, racist, and/or sexist. That’s the hard work that means more than taking selfies while protesting and posting on social media for dopamine hits.

Hi ,

Is elder brother / sibling allowed for temporary accommodation.

Is anyone managed to accomodate them as well if it's not allowed.


Kindly suggest.

The co-worker I was closest to left the firm this week, and I’m having a hard time staying motivated. It’s so hard when your friends leave :(

I want a baby but I want to go to law school next year but I also want to move to the islands next year (and I also don’t have a man but that’s besides the point). Decisions decisions.

My in laws keep saying to stop teaching my 9 month old baby or she’ll learn too fast. Um what?

My friend recently had a big fight with her boyfriend and it's not solved yet - she's worried. I just got engaged on Friday. Should I tell her now or is it bad timing? I don't post anything on social media or told anyone except family yet, so she won't find out from others.

Parents - any advice on when to start kindergarten? Our son has an end of august birthday.. concerned he might be behind if he starts while so you g but feels strange to start kindergarten at 6 years old. Would appreciate any advice from those who have been there already

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

How was your Thanksgiving? Anyone else stuck avoiding all of the relationship questions?

Looking for suggestions around cedar park for 4yo bday party venue. Reasonable fun for large group of similar aged kids?

I have never prospected from family or friends. My fear has been if something happens, which is supposed to happen (market pullback), it strains relationships. Anyone have success tho?

I've done some crazy stuff in my life, some of it has been fairly dangerous. I just had to give my wife a progesterone injection and I've never been that scared. I hope this all works.

Seattle here. I had a 18 month stint of sobriety about 6 years ago. Fell off and now I'm slippin once again. I know being a dry drunk does not work for me. Glad this group is here. Time to re-make friends with Bill.

Has anyone dealt with coming to terms with an emotionally abusive relationship? I struggle to admit this (because more drastic examples come to mind), but my therapist mentioned that things like yelling/throwing things/blocking me from leaving the room are also abusive traits my ex demonstrated. It makes me feel alienated from myself — like “how could I have allowed myself to be treated like that?”. Also feeling ashamed to tell anyone

I want to avail contingency loan of 50k, but my reason for loan is not listed and neither I can provide proof for why I need loan.

Actually I need loan for my parent. Can any one provide valid reason and regarding documentation that my loan would be approved?

Is the annual leave balance encased when we leave EY?

Anyone wanna grab a drink with me tonight? Guy here and happy to meet anyone. 👍

30 m ny/nj. US citizen. Moved as a teenager. INTJ. Single since I figured I’m not fighting the biological clock and have all the time in the world to meet someone and get settled. Things changed after I watched Akshay’s mom (Indian Matchmaking) tell him even 25 is too late and not marrying somehow messes up lives of people around him. While the show was staged, there might be truth to the latter part.
Looking for F in ny/nj. Personality: NOT Aparna. NOT Nadia but def more Nadia than Aparna.🙏

Would anyone be interested to collaborate/ work on anonymous dating/matrimonial app something on Tinder line but with minimal and different features

I've been dating this girl for 9mo and dtr'ed 5mo ago. She hides me from her family. For ex, we had plans for me to go to her place but something popped up and her brother was there to help. She indirectly told me to not go over until her brother leaves. I brought this up and she said why would I want my brother to know a random person's sleeping over? Same thing for when her parents decide to stop by and I'm at her place, I have to leave immediately. Is it a red flag or is it still too early?

What are the best fall-themed date activities around here?

Hi guys,
I'm lucky I landed C jobs at BCG and Bain in Doha. Please, I need your opinion on the below

1.BCG is T1 in the region while Bain doesn't seem so. Do you confirm? And the trend?

2.Interviews/negotiations went great with Bain vs BCG more acrimonious. Does my experience reflect structural cultural differences (pressure, up or out, cutthroat)?

3.What about transfers to the US-EU?

4. Type of cases

Your personal opinion: would you prioritize BCG T1 status over Bain "friendly culture"?

Anyone has recently join amex...need some help

What are the salary expectations for a non technical program manager in cloud? T2 city, 2 YOE. Also, what is the salary progression for this role?

Hi guys,
I have work experience of 2.5 years in Infosys at a salary of 4.2 currently working as test engineer.
Skills : python and sql
I want to switch for better paying job and looking for switch in domain,,,,which would be better path.
Should i look for data analyst or developer as for data analyst I have skills but for developer i need to start again.
Career growth and opportunities i guess it is more in developer but analyst wlb is hell . Please suggest which domain i should take ,thank you

Hi Salesforce guys,

I have an interview scheduled for salesforce technical consultant at Salesforce.
What is the level of interview?
What are the areas of questions can i expect?

How is the job security in Rakuten?

This question is for the project manager/resource manager. Project allocation will be done based on band or based on package in TCS

Thoughts on buying a house now? Lease is up in January. Can finally afford to buy. But would it be better to wait until next year in case of recession -> foreclosure market -> better deals? WDYT

Hello Fishes,

What will be inhand salary for 10.5 CTC?

Does anyone know base+bonus ranges for Associate Director, Director and Executive Director levels at UBS for their Global Family Office business as a relationship manager??

I doubt salary to come today, are banks on holiday tomorrow in Delhi ncr ??

Is it mandatory for a lateral to open new salary account in ICICI or Axis after joining Infosys?

Can't he/she continue using existing salary account from other banks?

Had my interview on 12th Feb evening with Infosys. The same day late night I got an email asking to upload the Application form( Completed the same on 13th Feb). Can I understand only HR discussion pending for me? If yes how much time will it take for me to get the HR call.
Thanks in advance.

Hi all can anyone tell me if accenture gives us the preferred joining Location


Please give ur inputs!!!!!

Hello Fishes,

I am serving my notice period in TCS and currently working in client location in India.
Since, client follow banking holidays, do I need to go to office on odd Saturdays?
If I do not go will that affect my notice period?
Any help will be appreciated. Thanks😊

Does Infosys referral through existing employee works faster than directly applying through Infosys career portal ?

LTI or HCL??? Genuine response please...

Is T-systems good company in WLB, promotions and hike?

I have resigned from TCS on Monday-14. Can anyone please let me know how to proceed further

Till now, HR did not respond anything, no response even after pining him in teams

My manager also has not initiated resignation process from his end. (I have seen few blogs where people mentioned like manager will initiate the seperation process within 3days of resignation)

I am worried about my notice period whether it will extend or they will be asking me to exted saying some x reasons afterwards.