Bf keeps telling me he loves this he loves that like he loves the breakfast I made or something random and this morning we were making out I said I love your ur kisses and he responded with “ I love this” and hugged me hard. Does this mean he loves me ? It’s been a few months i don’t love him and I didn’t know what to say so I just smiled and kissed him

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He probably just loves making out with you but that doesn’t mean he’s in love with you...just as you love kissing him but you’re not in love with him. Frankly the word love is being thrown around too liberally.

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I never understood this. Like how are you together for 3 months but dont love him? What do u feel then? Is it just fwb?

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I agree it’s being thrown around too much and it makes me super nervous

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If you know you don’t love him then leave. You wouldn’t want someone stringing you along if they knew they didn’t love you or see being with you long term

“If you don’t see a future together...it’s a waste of time.” Exactly. I can know I don’t love someone at 3 months but see a future with them and know that I might potentially love them given more time so I don’t need to break it off if I don’t love someone now. Love is a development - it can not be there now and be there in the future so you can absolutely do this at 3 months if love isn’t there lol.

Well I guess my question is does he mean it ?
Like does he love me or is it something he said
Super confused about that too

He loves being with you. “This” means being together, spending time - he really enjoys that. He didn’t say he loves you....yet. Good luck.

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Well you can’t fall in love with someone within 3 months ...

You work at protiviti, no one expects you to know what you’re doing looool

Wow and you think you’re so well off because you’re at a big 4? Hahah 😂😂😂
You must be such a great individual

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