BF started regularly cooking out of the blue after 4yrs.(I never complained). I still do all of the cleaning. He takes out the trash when he feels like it& is happy to let it pile into mountain ranges

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It’s like you wanted to praise you bf but changed your mind mid-sentence.

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What are we getting at? Trying to follow.

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I honestly read complaints like this wonder why I’m still single...

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Is this a thread to share our household chore habits? I fold my socks now. I used to do that thing where you wrap one over the other so they turn into sock balls but someone told me it wears down the elasticity.

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I second this. Just buy the exact same socks and there’s no need to match them up.

Sounds like a controlling relationship. You need to break up with him.

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Classic signs of an animal abuser, monitor him carefully

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Delete the gym, hit your lawyer, hire a Facebook.

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Girl just tell him. He ain’t no mind reader

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I take out the trash daily HMU

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WTH can you not take it out? It’s a small thing. Cleanup imho is 10% of my cooking time.

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You do 10% of the entire work set. So??? Anyways frankly is this the thing you want to fall on? Doesn’t seem worth it. I mean you love him. Small loss, big win.

I agree with the poster above, if you can’t discuss that him not taking out the trash bothers you you might have bigger issues.

It’s not going to get better even after marriage.

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