Boyfriend was sober since December and then binged on alcohol and coke two nights ago. Found him in his apartment with condoms in the trash and he went back to the drug dealer/escort that had been erased from his phone. Now what?

Went out to a date with a guy I matched in Bumble tonight at Newark. He had no chemistry with me. No kiss. Nothing. He was hot and handsome. 🥲

Just got out of a 5 yr long term relationship. I’m just realizing how awesome the 30+ dating pool is. Everyone is established, got their shits together, no time for games, and we are treating each other like adults. I love my 30s !

How many of you are actually looking for a relationship or have accepted being single forever?

Men of FB, how did you girlfriends / wives sex drive change with age?

Found out my crush isn't really into physical touch. But I'm really into it. Idk how this can work 🥺 I'm constantly doubting that he's into me because the physical isn't there even though he shows it in ither ways. And it's hard to want to touch him, but not being able to whenever I want because I don't want to make him uncomfortable. It's a big adjustment :(

27M
Any single F from hyd?

Is a blue faced Datejust 36 feminine?

Any F 🐠 in their 30s in DC interested in connecting?

Hello 👋🏾I'm a matchmaker and I have a few clients I'm trying to match:
- 49M, real estate developer, divorced - 1 child, LA (fitness is high on his list). - 37F, marketing manager, LA
Please note that everyone I work with is a Black Professional who is over 28, educated with at least a Bachelors degree, and earns over $75k. Feel free to DM me on IG @tenneshawood

I just deactivated my Instagram and FB account. Thinking of deleting my Snapchat since you can’t deactivate. I feel as though we spend our lives on social media and I’m trying to do a cleanse. Would you think it was weird if you met someone with no social media presence? I sometimes feel crazy for feeling like big brother is watching and feeling so ‘googable’ since I have a unique name. Sometimes I even wish I didn’t have a LinkedIn but in this day and age, I feel like it’s necessary - CONT’D

24 F here ☺️

Someone once said, if you are entrepreneurial enough, any app can be used as a dating app. I see that happening here on fishbowl when i came across this bowl 😂

If a guy seems to be stringing you along (taking much longer to reply to you with less enthusiasm, cancelling and forgetting plans you both agreed to, not making an effort to even see you let alone plan another date) is it better to stop replying to him (I guess ghosting) or try to communicate the issues? I feel it might not be worth it to try to communicate because I don’t think he gives a shit about me, but I also think ghosting is wrong 99% of the time. Been seeing each for about 1.5 months.

Does anyone of good dating app reccos for seniors? My gramps is 85 and is ready to “get back out there.” My grandma passed away last year and Covid has been particularly lonely for him. He’s fairly good at technology, he’s my favorite person to snapchat and FaceTime, but we’re looking for something very easy to use. Thanks ❤️

Given up on nyc dating scene 😐

What are your best vs worst dating stories

Anybody having issues dating because the only people you ever see are clients or coworkers or your married bartender?

Hi 👋🏾 I started a job in Jan of 2022 as a proj. coord. (2yrs exp) for a small-mid sized company ~200 ppl. I have received much recognition from the directors and higher executives. 3 months after being hired I was asked to become SCRUM master (for which I am certified) Unfortunately there has been a series of management changes and at my 6 month evaluation my salary was adjusted from 65 to 67k. Am I wrong to expect more? I’m unsure what a typical promotional jump is but 67k for SCRUM master?

Hi...

What's the appraisal cycle in mindtree? From when hike will be effective?

Might be a dumb question, but on Caribou, does where it says Disposition on the site indicate the decision?

GF and I are having major issues stemming around my family not liking her. Got into a major fight Friday and haven't spoken since. She said she's having doubts and questioning the whole relationship. Today's our one year...what can I possibly say. Don't know what she's expecting

I want to dispose my office chair and i live in Newton. Anyone knows if i can leave it curbside or where i can check for the details?

Quick poll. Has anyone who has previously passed the cpa exam ever used their books again (becker)? I'm a bit of a pack rat but I am trying to be realistic about keeping these things.

Does anyone have any information on Harper meyer in Miami? Im looking to apply as an associate, I just graduated and took the bar last week

My birth control pill dropped on the floor

...

I still ate it.

Wanted to get feedback on my new offer.
HR SaaS Sales. ASP-15-25K some folks make more of course.
Senior MM AE L3
101,500 base
145 OTE
70/30 split
equity
401k with no match (had match before)

First AE job but 8 YOE in sales and an SDR MGR prior

Still gonna negotiate. Seems solid to me but I'd like 150 OTE.

After 5 years as an AE / Sales Manager, what are the next possible career paths?

I love sales and wish I could stay as an individual contributor, but I feel like I am not getting anywhere with the salary i want, and the job itself I feel isn't using all of my potential/skillets (plus I'd like to learn and put into practice more).

So I'm really keen to hear from others what steps they took in their career to get into roles they love doing now but still within the sales side of an organisation.

Is there a name for the rotation of stuff you check on your phone every day for updates?

Any tips for dealing with a short staffed FOH? At this point I'd be happy just to get a few people applying for openings

I have a filtered date data and wanted to only copy the visible cell in column A and paste it to the next column (column B) with special paste. Because it is filtered data, I could not simple copy the whole column and paste it all at once. What is the quickest way to do this? I tried to search macro online but still cannot do it right.

How's the job market for a social strategist/content manager in FL?

Can anyone suggest a learning path to prepare for FAANG/MAGNA for data science roles

What do exit opps look like for a role in M&A Strategy that focuses primarily on CDD and ODD? Combination of PE and strategic buyer clients, although leaning with heading down more the PE route while I’m here.

How much would be the average CTC for senior Accountant at Qualcomm Hyderabad?

Looking for motivation to get me to my first Alcohol rehab appointment.

I left my last job because I didn't appreciate the culture (B4). However, it was probably because I was a terrible employee. However, I do find that my clients love me 10x more than my consulting colleagues. I joined a smaller firm to cover up the problem.

I drink during the day. I know it's the main reason for my ability to be a productive employee. Anyone else deal with this? I'm trying to control it through moderation management, Dharma meetings, therapy, and white knuckling.

4+ months sober. I do zoom AA every day but this was the first time I shared as a newcomer. I have some phone numbers from the group and hoping to get a sponsor soon. I plan to be sober 1 year before I can think of doing the steps. I read Living Sober and The Big Book every day in addition to prayer and mindful meditation. But would love to chat with someone “telephone therapy” can be something like Discord or WhatsApp.

13 years, 3months and 21 days! Its not been easy, but definately can be accomplished! Hard work, GOD a a desire to change, and not in that order!

Got two job offers after a stressful three months of job searching. I really want to have a drink or eat an edible to celebrate. Faaaak

Just wanted to post an update. 68 weeks ago I posted about my drinking problems. It was bad. It’s been 8 months now without a single drink. I still can’t believe it. I still miss drinking. I’ve sat with coworkers and watched them drink. It’s not nearly as fun, but I am so thankful each morning I can hold my head up high. Will I drink again? I only said I would quit for 60 days. Can I have a beer? Some wine? A fine bourbon? I sometimes crave it. I guess there is the answer! You can all do this!

New to recovery and had an intake call with an IOP program. They said all sessions will be on Zoom and I’m really nervous that I won’t connect to the program virtually. Anyone start rehab virtually?

It's that time...🦃

What's one thing you're grateful for in your sobriety journey at the moment?

Drop it below! 👇

Is Al Anon really helpful for spouses/children affected by alcoholism or other addictions? Does anyone have insight on this

Does anyone go to AA meeting while on the road? It would make life so much better for me if I could go, but I always feel like there isn’t time or I’m at the client too late

Hi all. First time posting and I could really use some guidance and help. I’m at a point that I need/want to stop drinking permanently. (Continued below)

Do you have a morning ritual? Are there certain practices or things you do to prepare mentally, emotionally, spiritually for the day?

Share below!

My husband was sober for 8 days then relapsed. This is the longest stretch he's gone in probably 8 months. I can't describe the heartache. I can't describe the hopelessness. This disease is the devil

Sibling is 52 days sober from heroin/cocaine, but I just found a syringe and alcohol wipes under their pillow.

They have been passing observed urine tests, how is it possible that they’re using? Any ideas?

My sibling is currently going through opioid withdrawal and my family and I would like her to go to detox. She’s insisting that detox isn’t helpful, and just makes her want to use (She has run from detox 5x over the past 4 years). She would like to detox at home instead, but if she is going to go to rehab, I she needs to spend at least some time in detox.

Should we let her detox at home or is this just asking for trouble? Can provide more details in the comments, but there is a character limit