Broke up today cant breathe eat sleep can only cry non stop someone please please help me

Hidradenitis supparativa - does anyone have it? I think I might. Have red lump so painful can’t see doctor until Tuesday

I have a Q that I worry is going to make me sound like a jerk, but want some opinions. I do strength training 2x/wk with a trainer who was assigned to me at a gym where I bought a pack of sessions. I don’t really consider myself “his” client bc the relationship is managed by the gym… but lately he keeps saying like “I can’t wait to see what my clients give me for Christmas” and I find it super awkward. I pay $150 per session for these workouts (cont’d in comments)…

Has anyone here gone to or considered therapy? A combo of being unhappy/overwhelmed at work and feeling stalled on development areas. Any thoughts (except judgy ones) much appreciated!

Hey folks. I know a lot of people want to post the suicide hotline and tell folks to get therapy and all of that, but if you have ever experienced suicidal ideation, my number one tip as someone who

Any recommendations for a primary care doc in the UWS?

I’m a recent grad struggling to look after my health when I’m stuck in a cubicle 10+ hours a day. How do you juggle a healthy lifestyle with long hours at a desk?

What’s the best way to make a monthly revenue model for a fitness studio with various pricing options? The monthly and single class assumptions I’m ok with but this studio also has a 8 and 12 class bundle option

If anyone here is buying the Peloton bike / tread and would like a $100 referral / discount code (only applies to the clothing and accessories) - here is my code CDJGFD

What kind of dietary resources do you point your patients do when discussing nutritional changes to your patients for their annual exams?

How do you think climate change will impact insurance coverage in the future?

Anybody have to take time off for long-covid? How has your HR handled it? I feel like any info I have gotten on FMLA and disability is because I’ve brought it up and have had to follow up multiple times.

How is keto for the sedentary office lifestyle? Any mental / mood side effects?

Does anyone know how much equinox is monthly with the big law discount/benefit that I’m sure are the same from every firm

Anyone else’s brain feel dazed and useless? Kids are a factor but even when I get time, I can’t focus. Tried exercise, outdoors, caffeine, vitamins, sleep, prescribed meds, etc.

If you don’t mind sharing, what do you do daily / weekly for a hair conditioning routine?

I just invested 50k in Peloton. Did i just make the biggest mistake of my life?

Alright fellow writers, probably showing my age but who has carpal tunnel irritation? My mom had surgery on both wrists maybe 20-years ago and, goddamn, mine is killing me.

Hows the Covid situation in the city? I'm heading back to Atlanta tomorrow after 2 weeks - wondering how crazy it is.

Anyone here going/gone to Harvard? Curious to know how tough Harvard (mainly MBA) is with ADHD?

Just wondering, can't people just pole vault or like have some helium balloons and fly over the proposed wall very easily? I mean I would get it if they had invisible laser or some shit

Gaana or Saavn?

Between HR team sending email to take digital detox and my manager calling me as soon as he sees away status on teams, my work from homes days are getting tough! Hope you all are having better ones!

The sudden death of a friend has made me realize that my obsession with goals has caused me to miss out on so much of my life. How can I learn to refocus and make time for the people in my life?

What is one of the most frustrating parts of being a scientist or researcher?

I'll tell you what it is: referencing!

You have to do so much of it, and it's so annoying. You have to cite your sources, but there are so many different formats for citations! And then sometimes you don't even know how to cite something, and how are you supposed to know that unless you ask someone who knows? And even then, they might not be sure whether it should be an in-text citation or a footnote…

What ever happened to the bio-fuels that were supposed to be the Next Big Thing? You never hear about them anymore

Lost sense of maximizing points/mileage value for int’l flights. Why is Detla redeeming so much more for some routes than Chase UR and even other partner airlines? E.g. non-stop economy btw Detroit-Seoul // Delta redeeming 160k on its own route while Chase UR 123k & Korean Air 80k for same route (code share)... I get it all depends on timing but still weird directly using Delta Skymiles on its own Delta route is more expensive than going through other methods....

Anyone here currently work or have previously worked at Sarah Cannon? I have questions about their career ladder/leadership structure.

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Could any one please share how much LTI have offered with 6.5 yrs of experience in Developer profile and which band you got ?

I want to get middle school cert (for ELA) My degree is K-8. My current cert. & EdTPA is K-5. What's the quickest & easiest path to middle school certification?! (I'm in TN, specifically Sumner Co.)

Hello People if God! How is everyone doing? I hope and pray you continue to seek the Lord during this time. He is with us at all times and will supply our needs. I think this is a huge season of pruning. Old things falling off, making room for the new. It’s been a challenge for sure, but the outcome is Growth! Anyone else feeling like this is a season of Growth?

Does anyone know of any social justice work or public service internships in north jersey or NYC for college students? Thanks!!

I'm currently a Solution Architect trying to get into Product Management and have over 11 years experience in Marketing Tech (Marketing Manager, Marketing Automation, and Digital). I cannot seem to break through, any advice?

Can someone refer me to a Paid Search Specialist post in Google?

How do you do reading groups? I shift mine around so much because I can seem to find a way that I feel is effective and practical!

Anyone know of any tech jobs out there that seem complex? Ones that someone can do with zero schooling but lots of experience behind them?

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

My closest friend of 15 years told me she's been in love with me for several years. I don't know what to do. She's my closest friend. We talk about everything under the sun. I don't want to lose her. I could feel the pain in her voice as she told me this. She already knows she's just a friend to me. I'm serious about my girlfriend and we've discussed getting married. Is there anything I can do to lessen her pain and preserve the friendship?

I can sacrifice an entire weekend cleaning my house so that wife's friend can spend the week. When I ask for a couple hours to help get the house clean so a house cleaner can effectively clean I'm told that's my prerogative and get no help. Well fuck me for being tired of living in a messy house.

Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?

I keep having sex with my ex and want to get back together (this is a recent thought & he doesn’t know) but we live on opposite coasts now. We broke up in 2016 yet we manage to hook up pretty much every other time we see each other. It always starts w an innocent hangout but he still does boyfriend duties and we end up hooking up. It feels good but also wrong at the same time. Is this normal? Am I too old for this F/30? I don’t do this with any of my other exes. Not even attracted to them anymo.

Had a big fight with my gf last night (we live together), looking for advice. She’s a first gen immigrant and her niece recently returned from their home country. She was staying with her brother in law but he’s been drinking a lot so she felt unsafe. She came to crash at my place which I was fine with for a couple of nights. Yesterday she let me know that her niece needs to stay two weeks. She didn’t rly ask she just told me - which rly pissed me off. Am I wrong for wanting to be consulted?

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

SO says I don’t acknowledge things for what they are and I try to find excuses. It’s been a big red flag for him and he sees it as immaturity and shadiness. I think he takes what I do the wrong way, and only try to explain my intent. I don’t know how to fix this

My gf and I are having a big discussion and I would love to get your thoughts on this. It’s about how much we keep in touch and communicate when I’m on the road. She needs to hear from me everyday multiple times and if I don’t answer her texts within a few hours, she can get quite controlling (text over and over again, also on my work phone, asks what I am doing and gets upset). I am not used to that and have the trust if she doesn’t text back, that it’s for good reasons, busy at work…. (Ctd)

Starting to casually date again and I’m curious to know you alls thoughts on the being too available theory?

F, 32 years old here: Why is it that guys are so boring with their responses when chatting on dating apps? Are most guys just boring? Or are they just not interested (then why like my picture or match with me??)? I always feel like I’m the only one making jokes/trying to liven up the conversation.

Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

3 weeks after me and the girl I was seeing ended things, she posts a pic from the wedding she had invited me to, with a new guy captioned “Babe”. Trust your gut folks, it’s always right.

Reunited with an ex and things moved very fast with the two of us spending a lot of time and nights together but we waited to consummate the “relationship”. Recently, he shared that he wasn’t in a position to be in a relationship right now and felt like he didn’t have enough to offer me but he cared deeply for me and was very attracted to me. Admittedly, he isn’t financially well-off and is heading back to school to finish his degree (we’re in our 30s) but it still hurts a lot.

Bf said on video he made his decision to breakup, and asked to meet on Sunday to talk in person. If he’s already decided, what’s the point of meeting up and break up one more time? (He said we have very different values. He thinks I look for stability, quality time, family, have a place, someone to come home to when he wants to travel and build businesses. He feels like the relationship is not letting him do what he wants to do at max capacity because of resistance he feels from me)