Brothers in Inter-racial relationships be looking at me like I made a mistake by marrying a black woman. Maybe they know something I don't.

Has anyone successfully found a significant other through an app? Wondering if these actually work, your experience with them, etc.

Have any bottoms struggled with hemorrhoids before? Nervous mine won’t go away/this will be an ongoing issue that keeps me from bottoming in my relationship. Also a bid nervous to talk about it with my partner - concerned he’ll be turned off. Any advice would be helpful!

Has anyone regretted their marriage and who they married? Please share experiences

Sunday scaries, watching videos of my ex, wallowing in my own misery.

My GF has trouble standing up for herself. She's on client travel and one of her co-workers made her really upset (very uncalled for and should have never happened). She called me crying. After consoling her I told her that she needs to go to her manager and possibly HR (yes it's to that level).
She told me she can't and she's not that person (she thinks she'll get the other person fired). She knows that she should and hates that she doesn't stand up for herself. What can I do to help?

How do I get my fiancé excited about wedding planning? He thinks I am too bossy when it comes to planning but I just want to get things done and out of the way. I am a huge planner and do not like to procrastinate so I push to get things checked off to the lis.

My wife's an artist and I'm an engineer, so I guess opposites really do attract sometimes

SO made a pretty huge promise to me a year ago and just found out he’s been going back on it behind my back for the last 6 months. It’s a relatively specific thing I don’t really want to give details on but big picture, he broke my trust and he knows it and while he’s been very apologetic, i’m really feeling quite hurt. we’ve been together for 2 years - do I end things?

Would it give my child disadvantages if she/he has a minority last name?

Any girls looking to make new friends? I’ve been here for 3 years and want to meet some more people, friend group is a bit exhausting at this point

Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?

How do you get over the fact that your
bf (who is super active on social media
and USED to post you without you
asking) just never does it anymore?
You don't suspect him of cheating or
anything like that, he just doesn't think
to do it anymore. I don't want our
fights to be around social media, and
honestly am embarrassed even typing
out this post, but it’s been on my mind lately.

How do you address your friend's or colleague's kid if you don't remember their name?

As a straight male, the world would be safer if no men existed. Men commit most of the problems and crimes this world has. I was having this discussion with my girlfriend and I didn’t realize how bad the male gender is.

I actually made a commission on my divorce. While we were arguing about our break-up, I could not wait to get her out of my life. As a recruiter, I found her a job in Hawaii and placed her at the client site halfway around the world. It was one of the most unique breakups I have ever experienced.

Get married and quit job？what if I change my mind, will it be hard to make a come back?

We are a first generation immigrant, working couple in our 30’s with a one year old baby. Have always lived in the city and work in the financial district. We have outgrown our 2bedroom condo on UES and are feeling the need for more space, especially for the kid. What are some of the better NYC suburbs for young families? Looking for an easy commute into the city, safe place with good schools and happening vibe with dining options, bars etc. Just starting our research, so any info is welcome!

Off topic
I'm 25 m from Rajasthan
My CCTC is 12.5 I'm getting an offer of 20 in banglore. But my dad doesn't want me to relocate, he says you should now settle down. Try for govt jobs private job bakwas h, otherwise find a job nearby.
I told him i have no interest in gov jobs to which he said disgustingly " interest nhi h baad m yaad krega " this sentence broke my heart,i dnt want to be disrespectful, but i feel guilty now as if I've let him down
Dnt knw Wht to do now I'm clueless

Morning Everyone,

Hope everybody is having a great weekend and for people who are not so having a great time like me and facing some difficulties in life, please know that it is just a phase and it too shall pass like the good ones and yes talking to your mother might help she has the greatest strength.

Also can I request you all to please give me 11 likes as I am new and I am not able to start a chat. I am in a great need to find a job.

I will be really grateful if your guys could help 🙂☮️

Have you ever gotten feedback that you disagreed with?

Looking for a change of pace (currently in Boston) and am considering trying out Denver. I’d love anyone’s input on relative pros and cons (gay community, food scene, city culture, what the people are like, etc)! For context: I’m a gay male in my mid 20s. Bos has been nice and all but I’m tired of how expensive it is and want to try something new.

Lodging recs in Georgetown, Penang Malaysia? Disappointed by absence of Marriott properties. Cool with hotel, hostel or Airbnb

I had an HR discussion last week Monday and asked for 18 Lac as an expected CTC. Because I am holding a counter offer value of 16 Lac. When I am checking with the HR update, he told me like due to high compensation they are expecting leadership approval.
Does anyone come across such a scenario?
Approximately how long the process will take to get leadership approval?
Is my salary range within market threshold?
CTS Role: Associate-Projects
Tech stack: Machine Learning, DevOps, Azure
YOE: 4.3

Would you rather use Excel versus CRM to store data and manage records? If so, why?

Hi fishes how to reimburse internet and other ones in Capgemini. Pls let me know

I deeply miss working in transportation operations, but it seems very few of the jobs are remote and that is what i presently need. I've got 7 years of trucking/flatbed operations experience. Anyone from the industry work for a company that offers remote operations opportunities?

Anyone familiar with Dalberg willing to give some advice on the application process & potentially a referral? I'll finish my degree in Intl. Development in 2023 and would love to combine my passion for strategy/consulting with development work.

Thank you.

Best redemption ideas for the $100 bonvoy ambassador elite voucher? Ritz robe?

Anyone know if we’re reopening this Friday or not?

Where to buy cute affordable work desk from? I am looking for white marble or graywash. Bonus if it has gold in it. It seems like Amazon is a bunch of scam.

Another mail chain started. Why do people don't understand it's a mistake and keep on responding to it

Moving from out of town, need apartment, top priority is soundproofing / quiet. If you love your living situation please share, if you hate it please also share :)

PS I'll work in city center

Does anyone here have a STUDY GUIDE for the CFE EXAM (Law & Investigation section)?

Looking for advice on breaking into the L&E litigation field. I’m a rising third-year general litigation associate at a v10 law firm in NYC where I’ve gotten to work on a couple of L&E cases. My job search for L&E roles has been a bit of an uphill battle, because most of the roles require significant L&E experience. Would it be a bad idea to take a non-partner track role in an AmLaw100 firm’s L&E group in order to break into the field? What kinds of jobs would I be marketable for afterwards?

Does anyone know the bonus range %s for an IFS manager?

Anyone have a peloton referral code?

What should be ideal salary in servicenow for 8 yoe

Have you had a mentor in your career and how has the experience been?

I’m 27 and think I’m starting to resent my girlfriend that I’ve been dating since I was 18

I can't stand the sound of people chewing 😔

Any edibles you folks can recommend?

I’ve tried dating 3 guys this year and each time I just get more and more heartbroken. I give up.

I have no clue what I’m doing.

I lost the passion I had for my job almost a year ago.
My company hired people with same or less experience than I do, but are paying them 30% more than me...
When I requested a raise, they said I'd get 15% for my "hard work"... Come to find a week later that everyone in the company got a 10% raise, even people who just got in or are awful performers, that means my real increase due to my "hard work" is only 5%.

Market offers are around 20% more but haven't been able to pass the interviews.

Sometimes I wish I was prettier so life would’ve been easier

Kinda bored, anyone wanna chat?🙃

Just pierced my ear (I’m a dude) and I’m heading out to my company’s HQ in two weeks (I’m remote) and even though I almost never care what people think I’m a little nervous to see if anyone freaks out that their GC has an earring.

I suck at yoga…
I sustained a back injury about 18 years ago and it’s never been the same since. Friend of mine suggested doing yoga but I really can’t do even the basic movements. I really hope it gets easier 😮‍💨

Hot take: drinking alcohol (even “social” drinking) is not attractive. It’s indicative of poor mental and physical health