Busty, single ladies, how helpful do you find it to be in the dating and corporate world?

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I am not busty but I am told I am attractive and it has helped with middle manager level clients who were super responsive and helpful - one client saw how busy I was and offered to do some of my work for me 😂 not sure about more sr clients because I don’t interact with Sr VPs/C-suite clients without partner presence

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Generally, yes. Though I think some people can be dismissive because of it, which isn’t so great.

🤔 in both the corporate and dating world it has helped me attract creepy/thirty AF dudes and receive sexually suggestive comments/harassment.

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I dunno. Just stating observation of where I got the most hits. Now that I think about it tho, I am not one to advertise my breasts on dating platforms. It was probably the fact that I look young so I was either attracting young guys or older dudes who want young looking girls.

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They’re unhelpful in the corporate world, because it’s impossible to get buttondowns that actually fit right and button all the way with no gaps 😂

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Have your dry cleaner insert snaps between buttons. Also never go without a matching color cami

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Tbh being busty has its perks but i am completely self conscious about my chest in general especially in the workplace since Im not trying to use it to my advantage there.. my boobs have a mind of their own so im constantly wrangling them 😂🥴

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Button down shirts are the hardest to shop for. I’m busty but slim and petite. I hate that stupid button right between my girls, always straightening my shirt so there’s not a gap.

Being attractive helps in both arenas for both genders. Taller men make more money. Attractive men are considered more credible.

Biology isn’t politically correct.

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On the flip side. I’m attractive, but I’m 5 ft tall, and my height is definitely a hinderance. Even with 5 inch heels I’m still pretty short :|

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You should stream yourselves playing video games on twitch. Guaranteed you’ll make 2-3x more than your current salary lol.

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I was once asked if my big boobs give me a backache!

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Harassment is cool

Helpful??? 🤨

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Much in line with what PwC1 said. I do agree with SM1 that being generally attractive gives you an advantage in life. However, I don’t find that my large chest in particular is “helpful” in my dating or professional life.

I’m extraordinarily self conscious about my boobs so I’m getting a (medically approved) breast reduction.

I would say that, based off of what I know now of my interviewers, that being attractive definitely probably played a role in me getting my job when I was younger (although I was qualified for it at the time). As I’ve gotten older though (and much less bombshell), I thank goodness I have the smarts to back it up!

Haha, sure

OP are you male or female 🤔

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