Can a marriage between introvert guy and extrovert girl be ever successful?

I'm an introvert trying to make some life choices and the girl im talking to is extrovert and I'm worried that she might get bored of me. How do I fix myself?

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Own that you are who you are. Make an effort to get to know her despite your differences. Tell her that this is who you are and you find her interesting. As long as she is interested, it will flow. Quit worrying about a what if scenario that she may not even think of.

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Opposites attract. If both of you are exactly the same the relationship wouldn’t be smooth either. Trust me, she prolly appreciates your introvert qualities too! Know that one social style is not more superior to the other...

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Challenging i would say your already feeling nervous that you're introvert. She will have more friends and guy friends if you can handle all of this then that's great. In fact I am curious if you're introvert how did you meet her in the 1st place...my observation being extrovert ladies not all but most prefer extrovert guys...because they will meet more of them...if you're hiding then no luck...if you can work it out then great...

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I am extroverted women married to an introverted guy. We have been together for 15 years now, dating + marriage. We have done just fine. There have been days where her asks me to keep quiet because I talk a lot but when friends come home I am the conversation engager etc. Never been bored of him, he is always there for me. I do have more friends that I video call and talk etc.

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My wife was an introvert when we met and I was the extrovert. Over the years, I have moved to be less extrovert and she has moved to be less introvert. I call it the balancing of personalities.

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Introvert does not mean you are boring!

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Exactly, some of the most interesting and clever people I know are introverts.

Lol why would it not work. Do you think introverted men can only be with other introverts?

We will wait, thanks.

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Be yourself. No need to ‘fix’ yourself. Just be who you are and find someone who likes you for who you are.

It can work for sure. I am an extrovert and my husband is an introvert. I love hosting parties and getting people together for a good time which includes his buddies and through me, he manages to stay in touch with his friends and family.

He compensates for that with being the listener that I need in life. I decide where we are going to travel, what we are going to do and he lets me.

So it’s a win win.

I have an extrovert wife and it works well as ZSA1 says above ☝️

+1 Introvert doesn’t mean boring. What are your hobbies, interests? What’s common between you and your SO? Are you align on financial mindset (at high level) are probably some of more important questions than extrovert vs introvert

Are you are an introvert or socially awkward? Two different things.

I’m an introvert myself and I get along mostly with extroverts. I open up to them easily and that’s what works for me.

Me too!

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