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Anyone have a loan against their BTC? Pros/cons? I'd like to take out a loan, flip a home then pay it back.
Curious as to who is in this bowl. I just realized that I assumed it would be mostly women as the child rearing gets thrown in our face more, but realized that assumption is likely very wrong.
- 34F, single
How is Nagarro never heard about it? Where it is in Pune? How is environment, work life balance any perks
HI Fishes, i got offer from EY as TestLead. Current ctc offered 16lpa. I have relevant experience 7.5. Is it a good offer? can i expect atleast 10% variablebonus pay ? last dbt will be is any onsite oppurtunity available in EY?
Any suggestions or tips for new joinee?
Something that isn't communicated through official mails, but I should keep in mind. Any stuffs to pay attention to? Anything I should specifically ask?
I mean any "tips & tricks" from you - about joining & make my life better in Deloitte 😉
Open to any tips & suggestions. Joining as Consultant, have got "buddy" tagged & received official onboarding details.
Biggest pet peeve in the office? I’ll go first. I’m really sensitive to scents so I hate when people eat lunch at their desk. It’s even worse if I’m a new employee, cuz it’s like, are you on lunch or are you working?? Can I ask you a question or not? I always take my lunches away from my desk and other people who didn’t volunteer to smell it. Anyway though. What bugs you?
YOE - 1.6
CCTC - 12.5
Tech - .NET
Please suggest some companies that offer more than 20Lpa.
I have already known some companies, looking for more to increase my chances.
Epam systems or Impetus technologies?
Data engineeer with 8 yrs of exp. Ctc is same with both, 32lpa fixed and 2lpa JB.
Wlb, growth opportunities and long term settlement wise !?
Gme hold tomorrow or sell?
I’m interested in pursuing any opportunities at Jigsaw...but cannot find a career page for them for the life of me. Do they not post positions online? TIA!
What’s the criteria, generically, for a resume to get in front of an actual HR recruiter? I feel my resume is constantly being dispositioned by the automated system.
Which shampoo to use for frizzy hair. The one that won’t weigh down hair. Post pregnancy hair issues
Anyone drafting right now?
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We have one beautiful kiddo and it’s time to decide whether or not to try for a second (quickly approaching our 40’s). We both have crazy jobs and are wondering if a second child will completely throw our lives into a tailspin. Anyone out there who has advice on the difference of going from 1 to 2? Or who wants to share the benefits of having (or being) an only child?
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Is there anyone else out there that went from self-medicating pre pandemic to cope with stress — to pretty much just becoming a whole drug addict at this point?
Having a tough time not lashing out at my folks on a daily basis. I moved back home to help them out, but they continue to ask the same questions that I’ve said I don’t want to discuss, do the same things that annoy me (discussed previously), and continue to make stupid financial decisions that at the end only impact me. I don’t know what else I can do without just exploding on a daily basis
No surprise - this has been a tough year for most. Often people joke about the “difficult and uncertain times.” But recent events have made this phrase not a joke. Idk if it’s appropriate to just drop extremely sad news on your coworkers (especially WFH) but I️ also want them to understand I’m not TRYING to be distracted from work. I WISH it was all made up & not true, but I’ve lost 5 friends/family members since this June. Four of whom tragically lost their lives before turning 25 years old
What would you do? I cut out toxic parents. Unfortunately my amazing grandmother who raised me lives with them. I text her to check up on her every few days, but lately discovered it was my mom who has been texting me from grandma’s phone (my gma doesn’t speak English, but latest messages contained snippets of perfectly-written English).
How did you know you needed meds?
Would you leave if you had no debt, no mortgage, no spouse, no kids, and enough money to start a small business with 401k intact and some crypto assets? Starting to address depression from untreated childhood trauma with a regular therapist and it's no joke. Healing and working in consulting at the same time is killing me. Advice welcome.
Recently divorced with two kids. 2.5/4.My ex has a personality disorder.She refuses to let me see the kids any more than the minimum despite them beg to see me.This is the worst pain I’ve ever felt.
How am I supposed to find a therapist when I work during all reasonable hours... So annoying!!! Any recommendation out in NYC.
First year attorney struggling with my mental health (& suicidal ideation). Got a job at a boutique firm right after law school in 2019 (in an area of the law I had no interest in but bills) and then the pandemic hit and I did not feel supported by the firm while WFH. My mental health declined as did my work product and I’m essentially being let go by the firm. Really struggling with thoughts of being a failure and like maybe I’m just dumb and someone mistakenly let me graduate law school.
My best friend is my husband. He’s amazing. But I honestly don’t have any true close friends...like a best friend that I can call. Is anyone in a similar situation? I miss having someone like that in my life.
There is a Suicide Prevention Megathread on Reddit in response to the recent suicides of Anthony Bourdain and Kate Spade. Many helpful sub-threads.
How can I support a friend going through a divorce if I’m out of town M-Th and with the holiday season I’ll be gone til the end of month?
Life feels like it’s falling apart, might get counseled out only a year into this job, physical and mental health has suffered, my spouse has been having mental health challenges, don’t have many friends, and overall life is feeling impossible. I think about how much life is ahead of me and I think to myself, “wow that’s too much.” I know there’s nothing anyone here can do to help. Just needed to get it out to a group of strangers. Hope you all figure life out and find happiness
Has anyone been able to get prescribed anti-depressants during COVID? I’m struggling so much right but not sure how this will work out with telemedicine, etc. I don’t have a primary therapist.
As things are slowly opening back up (maybe too soon...), I feel like I need a break from all of this before diving back into the next normal. I'm not going to be "on" just like that ... Anyone else?
I’ve been having an incredibly hard time focusing lately. I feel like I used to be way more of a go getter/ detail oriented/ driven. Now I’m just struggling to make it through the day without anyone noticing that I’m not all there mentally.
The more time I’ve spent in therapy, the more it seems like my job is significantly contributing to my unhappiness. Problem is I have never worked anywhere else (have been on like 5 projects though and 5 years at the firm), so I’m not sure if it’s working itself that makes me unhappy, or maybe consulting specifically. Can anyone relate? How do you know when it is time to move on?
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