Can I buy you a purse after our date?

A girl messaged me on Instagram after seeing one of my posts on discover. We’ve been chatting for a few weeks and she’s pretty cool. Turns out she’s 18...and I’m 28. should I stop talking to her?

Sucks to adore, want the very best for someone, treat them exactly like they should be treated by a SO, and then they still don’t want to be with you. Rejection sucks, especially when it’s someone you really care about. 31 M and just wanting to find my person. In my feels this evening. Can I hear some positive stories of ppl in their 30’s finally finding their person after countless dating dead ends, or just positive vibes in general this evening. Thanks.

Do you feel that dating scene change significantly for you when you hit 30 (esp if you are btm)?

Ok so do dating apps categorize your options based on how you look because I’m starting to think I’m not as attractive as I’ve been led to believe or thought? 😅

Is online dating the way to go during this time of social distancing?

okay y’all, i need some advice. is it fair to ask someone you’re exclusively dating for more contact when not physically together or better to just end it? i don’t feel comfortable telling someone that because i don’t want to force them and set expectations but i’m starting to lose feelings/interest for this person. this isn’t the first time i’ve felt this; it’s been weeks. MORE BELOW

Bob Iger is my crush 😁

Has anyone here used Find Femmes or any similar dating service to find more feminine women? I’m femme4femme and am interested in something like this bc I don’t see many femmes on dating apps

So I have good relationships with all my straight guy friends and we all take trips together and are platonic. Recently found out one of my guy friends is secretly questioning himself and has started to make weird sexual tension between us when we’re drinking. In my drunken stupor, I entertain him cuz objectively, he’s really really hot but in reality, I wanna shut it down cuz I’ve had bad experiences with hooking up with “straight” guy friends. Any way to diffuse/deflect this before escalating?

Men who are fit and have ripped bodies, does that help with getting the ladies ?

What’s a reasonable Christmas gift for a girl I’ve been dating for less than 3 weeks?

I am in a relationship for 3.5 years now. .
We both love each other. Used to enjoy the company emotionally and physically. We took it bit slow as it was 1st relationship for both of us.
For initial years we tried various stuff on bed and we both enjoyed it thoroughly.
And finally last year after 2-2.5 years of dating when we were comfortable enough, we decided to have sex.

But, after many unsuccessful attempts we discover that she might have medical condition vaginismus

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went into an AD in a high COL city and was able to get a sub date in about 2-3 weeks. did i get lucky or has demand subdued?

Folks any meetups for people in their 20s, would love to explore some in person speed dating :)

Confession: I automatically assume most people I meet are just nice idiots until proven otherwise.

Are dudes expected to carry the conversation on dating apps? Or is it just me?

48 hours in AMS, any recs or romantic ideas?

Folks, I matched with a guy who's an year younger, 6ft+ looks damn hot(according to me). I guess am average & even before I meet I feel it'll be a turndown. How do you deal with such thoughts ?

Okay newly single and struggling to meet women. I've tried tinder but it never goes anywhere. Lesbian 🐠 any advice?

Graduated law school, passed the bar, and started my job last summer. My wife and I got pregnant with our first sooner than we expected, and we're due in June. Any general tips/advice?

Any Sr. Writers available? Hit me up with links.

Hi All,

I joined a competitor company due to toxic boss in June 2022 which my previous company has got idea about and have still not recieved F&F money and experience letter since 3 months.
In the offer letter it was written that I am prohibited to join competitor company after resigning but I got to know from sources that such contracts don't hold any relevance. I am waiting for 10 more days as HR told me it is in process and then planning to file complaint in labour court. Suggestions please?

Just got my PERM approved and started prepping for I140. Can I move to another state? My main concern is that it will require another PERM and I-140 can’t be filed.

Looking for some advice. I am currently going through a work based green card sponsorship. The company kicked off the process in January this year. EVL was submitted in June and still no response. I believe once the EVL is approved they will initiate the PERM process. Does anybody know how much more is left in the process until I get the green card? I believe from what I’ve heard I may have to wait for another 12-18 months. Can anyone confirm?

Hello guys need help Publicis sapeint or Globant same ctc ,which one should I choose as per wlb or work life balance

Does anyone work at a boutique real estate firm in the northeast? Do you like it?

Looking to connect with someone from ZS- specifically market access. Trying to get my hands on a pdf of a book written by Ed Schoonveld.

Thanks!

So I say this with complete humility and an understanding that this is a fortunate-ish situation to be in. I’m in a position where I am tied to nothing, I have no children, spouse, or house. My job, which I’ve loved until some recent significant leadership changes, is sucking the life out of me and I think it may be time for a change. Because I am able to “pick up and go” I’m open to opportunities and locations. I’ve never worked with a recruiter but was hoping I could get some recommendations!

Any 🐠 get Invisalign in Boston - recommendations on where? How was the experience during your treatment? Was between Smilebar or Align Dental.

Just had a consult at Smilebar. Ortho was ridiculously rude, spoke really fast, dismissed my concerns. Laughed at a few of my questions, rolled eyes at one. Everything was pressure to get me to commit ~$5.8k on the spot during a *15 minute consult*.

Anyone know what the average wage for working in a bar/ restaurant in Dubai is I’m thinking of taking an offer to work there but I’m not sure what I should be looking for salary wise

41F, just found/joined this bowl and the bowl picture is cracking me up 🤣🤣🤣

Hi team, please help me to decide the best offer out of below

TCS - 21.5 L + 3L JB
Wipro - 24 + 50K JB
Gainwell Technologies - 24 ( Fixed) no variable pay
Softura - 24.8 ( Fixed ) no variable pay

No idea about last two.. if anyone knows about it, just share your thoughts as well pls

Repost - For those who left big law and went in house or transitioned to another career path, how did you decide what to do? I know I do not want to do litigation anymore, but don’t really know where to go from here. I’m thinking about quitting just to take a few months and decide where to go next. I’m studying for my CIPP cert, but I’m not even sure if I want to work in data privacy. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated!

Any advice for an experienced hire coming in specifically as a sr. manager/manager? Whether you yourself have that experience or worked for a new manager

How many weekends a year do you guys work on average?

Holiday gift ideas for new-ish gf? Dating ~6 months.

I am currently working on TN visa and is it good to move to H1B visa and are there any benefits. I am asian born, please advise.

Hi fishes biggest question, EPAM or FRACTAL ANALYTICS , for a big data Engineer??

Single 35 M, going to be moving to Chicago in the spring. What are the best neighborhoods to consider if I’m looking to meet other late 20s - early 30s singles?

Let’s do another ASL 32FChi

Sup cuties 😍

35F. Where are the baldies at? 😍😍😍

What’s everyone doing today

Anyone want to hangout at the beach today

I think this bowl is a great idea but it’s really difficult to foster conversations between other people.. any suggestions on how to do it?

Sup party people 🥳

How was everyone’s weekend 🤨

What's everyone doing this weekend? 🥳

What’s everyone doing today 🤨

Christkindle market any F fishes? 25 M

What are your top 3 neighborhoods/bars to meet other singles out? 28M on the north side currently.

Petition to rename bowl to “IBM in Chicago”

33F and over the apps - anyone wanna chat and check out a new restaurant this week?

Bonus points if you’re into fitness/health, dogs, or travel.

Anyone want to catch the game at a bar?