Can someone please explain this phenomenon I notice. Idk if it's an internal observation issue or really externally things change.

As a happy career-oriented single man. When I'm just focused on improving my career, thinking about work, just doing my thing. I notice women find me attractive, they're nice to me, want me to talk a little bit, and get annoyed or sad when I'm short with them. So I generally feel attractive.

But when I'm dtf, that attraction immediately dissappears. Is it me?

Anyone here have work crushes?

Do you think it's easier to date other people in law vs trying to date outside of it? I went on a date last week and it went great, but I got a message from him today saying he didn't really think I had the time for a real relationship. My work is important to me and I don't get why that's a turn off for some guys...anyways help! How do I meet someone who gets it?

Any single girls in this bowl?

Hi, anyibe up for a chat?

Kinda bummed. I’ve been single for 6 years (I’m 31 now). I live in ptown and talk to guys in Boston on tinder. Was talking to a guy for about a week who is my type. I asked if he wanted to FaceTime tonight and he said sure but caveated that he isn’t into long distance (ptown to Boston) and that we would most likely stick to chatting. Idk what’s wrong with me. Everyone tells me I’m a catch but guys I’m attracted to are never into me 😭 just needed to vent

How’s the dating scene in Austin? Any advice for a single 30 yr old Male who recently moved here?

Any 40F interested in connecting?

Hey

Male here,

Anyone up for weekend catchup and drive ...female preferred ;)

I went to a masseur in LV last week and this massage turned sensual. He texts me today saying he’s HIV + undetectable and he tested positive for gonorrhea yesterday. This was my first such massage experience and I feel my world has fallen apart. Our genitals touched and kisses. I did my tests this morning and waiting for results. 😌😌 why didn’t he share this before booking an appt! 😭

Anyone looking to play back 4 blood together?

Hey guys,

This is an embarassing question to ask but every time I go on a date, guys keep pestering me how am I single and 34. I am too exhausted to answer it.

I know the stereotype is that something is wrong with us. I have days where I can't keep my chin up anymore

Been getting into shape/making lifestyle changes. Noticed that everyone is a lot like way nicer to me lol even random people. I suffer from serious body dysmorphia so please don’t see this the wrong way but does this mean… i’m attractive? Male for context

ALPFA events & convention = Old married men hitting on younger women

Has anyone had any luck using ‘The League’ dating app? I’m a 29yo woman based in Houston.

Okay - the number one rule is that ladies DM here

I'm tired of being mistaken for a teenager 🙍🏾‍♀️

Can’t sleep. Any ladies want to chat? 👩🏽

Ethnic gay here. I have little confidence to interact people in the LGBT community because I have been scared of all the judgment. When cruising online or offline, I always feel other people are ...

M32.. Would like to check and connect a girl who can speak kannada or telugu please DM

M26. Started using dating apps. Literally swiped everyone rightnyet 0 match😥

Any suggestions. I tried updating bio and other things

2019 TTS or 2020 Supra Premium? Looking for a fun little tin can to zoom around in whenever I need to drive somewhere. Currently don’t have a car and don’t need one. Partner has a SQ5 so no need for utility here...

I am a fresher ca with prior global audit experience

Please help me refer

I am currently at my last semester and is beginning my job search. I am an international student and is majoring in Accounting and Finance, does anyone have any recommendations on how to begin my job search or potentially get a referral? Any networking tips will also be very much appreciated!

What’s the best way to leverage myself in interviews for internships or entry level jobs in IT. I’m an MIS undergrad set to graduate this May and I also hold a leadership position for a school org. Recently had a couple of interviews already but starting to feel a bit discouraged. Imposter Syndrome settling in…

How do people network naturally? I’ve applied for numerous software engineering intern positions, but I have yet to move past applying. I know networking is key, but I just feel awkward and in a way “dirty”… like I don’t want to feel too pushy or impede on people’s time to get into tech. Could someone offer any advice on how to word a message that sounds natural and sincere? I’m looking to get in contact with both recruiters and people already working in positions that I’d want.

How is the internship program at Crowe? I just applied to multiple internships at Crowe and it looks like an amazing company to work for.

Does Ola follow 6-day work?

What are some remote/WFH positions that pay around 50-60k? Looking to find something remote but most jobs are pretty low paying admin work.

How much is the minimum salary for an entry level in sales (Ireland)

So, I’m going to purses Masters in Business Analytics form a “not so reputed” university in the US. My profile says I attend UTA but I’m transferring to another university due to some unforeseen circumstances. Had connected to some alumni of that university and asked about the overview of the program and it concludes that courses aren’t up to the mark. However, I have worked in the domain before and know how to use some analytical tools. What should be my plan now to get a job in next 20 months?

Data analytics or fullstack developer?
If I want to switch from non IT.

120k for a SC at KPMG. non-MBA. low or no? What can I expect when Manager?

Got a new offer. One of my dream places since I was a kid starting in this business. Great salary. Better position.

Keep fighting my people. Good things will come to you.

Has anyone recently used Amazon’s relocation service, Graebel, when moving to Seattle? Thoughts, tips?

Creatives in the field. Have you ever jumped to Sr. Consultant, then left to a non consultant role? How does the move look if we don’t want to be a consultant anymore? Curious what others have done.

Need advice and help.

I have realized I grew up in a household where my dad did not treat my mom as an equal. He belittles her, is rude and convinced his way is the only way.

It is painful to say, but some of this shows up in me and in my relationship. I am starting to catch myself, and it to me seems to be more of a reaction than anythjng that is ever intentional.

Wondering if anyone has dealt with something similar, and any success in making changes besides therapy. Cont. in comments

I’m breaking up with my GF of 3 years today.. going to be a tough one.

Need gift ideas: my partner’s parents let me stay at their beach cottage and would like to gift them something nice. They are well off, like food, and outdoors stuff. Any suggestions?

My boyfriend is not the best at providing emotional support. I’m pretty sure a lot of it stems from him not being able to fully express his emotions when he was younger. Does this mean our relationship is doomed or is there anything we can do to work on this? I just want to feel supported and that he is there for me.

Does anyone else feel like their S/O is becoming more like a roommate? We’re in our early thirties and have lived together now for three years. Intimacy has dwindled in the last 5 months or so, we still get along great and enjoy our time together, but feels less romantic. My fear is that if this is what it feels like when we’re young, that it will be be like when we’re in our 40s and 50s? Has anyone else gone through this and how did it work out for you?

For female consultants - anyone experienced with egg freezing? Considering it and looking for practical advice i.e. 1) best locations / clinics globally (quality/cost wise) 2) estimated cost, one off and recurring 3) success in actually conceiving & giving birth 4) dos and donts / regrets 5) any other relevant considerations

Someone find a pic and description for this bowl.

For those who are in long term relationships, why aren’t you married? I’d like to move forward and start a family, but my gf isn’t willing to consider that at this point and probably won’t for the next ~10yrs. We’re 23 and 27yo

How do you know if your friendship has gone beyond friendship and it is something different?

My bf took a guys trip to Caribbean to celebrate a good friend of 20+ year’s milestone bday. The friend’s bday is the day before mine. Normally bf and I trip for my bday over the holiday weekend. Bf will be back for my actual bday, and we’re taking a domestic trip next weekend. That said, I still feel a little miffed that we’re not spending this weekend together like normal. Are my feelings unreasonable?

Any advice on how to do an organized shared family calendar? My wife and I want to get more sophisticated than a calendar on the fridge. Would love to link to Outlook w/out sharing each other’s work meetings. How do you manage this with your partner?

12 years and my partner won't do chores. Vent vent vent. I make 80% of our income and pay 80% of expenses. I'm also tidy but hate cleaning. Partner works 20-30 hours/ week no kids and is a slob. 3 months ago made chore list, got them to sign on the list the 50/50 split that it was fair. 3 months later I've been doing my chores they haven't done any. Brought it up today and was accused that the list was unfair they refuse and they dont have time because they must "work to subsidize your expenses"

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person