Can you actually live a high upper class lifestyle in a big city in an expensive part of town like Manhattan off a consulting salary? (Designer clothes, private schools, maids, etc.)

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The words "paying off" were not in OPs post.

I don't think this is possible at big4 until reaching a level of management equivalent to high SM or partner (read: at least 250k). Mid-100,000 does not afford a high upper class life in New York.

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Or anywhere

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OW1 is right. If both you and SO earn 150-180k then that should be a very good lifestyle in NY. If both are over 220-250k by the time you have kids, it's still going to be great.
High end lifestyle is easier maintained on double income

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As a senior partner in Manhattan, yes. As anything less, no.

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For a 2 bed apt in Manhattan, nanny, 2 kids in private school, vacations, camp, etc that’s probably $700k. Yikes.

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I live in a very nice suburb in Chicago and 200k is kind of the minimum it feels like if you want to have multiple kids and live comfortably (vacations, childcare, summer camps) . I think 250-300 is a lot more comfortable per family especially with 2 or more kids. Which is roughly about 4-5 times the median household income just to put that in perspective.

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Sure sure.. just depends on how good looking you are and how rich your spouse will be..

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SM and spouse bring in $500K+ base and definitely don’t feel like we are living the high life in California. But I also feel our lifestyle preferences are continuously redefined the more we make so, will never feel “comfortable."

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That’s an interesting POV SM1

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Sounds like hopeless for single parents that makes mid 100k

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I’m a partner in Detroit and I wouldn’t claim I live a “high upper class lifestyle”. I am not complaining - I know how fortunate I am. I have a big, nice house and nice cars. My kids participate in expensive sports. We take nice vacations. But I have friends who have actual housekeepers (not a cleaning lady weekly or every other week), $30k handbags, kids in expensive private schools and take private jets. So I would say I’m on the low end of upper class 😊

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Family businesses or businesses they started with significant money from their family. Various industries.

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Depends on the number of kids and single vs double income. But you probably need to be a partner.

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You'd need to be dual income. I am a SM over $200k. I own a small 1 br apt in Manhattan. No designer clothes, no car, no maid. You either need to be in banking with huge bonuses, in strategy or come from money to get a foot in the door

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This was insightful

I made $155 base and hubby made $150k when we lived in the UWS of Manhattan. I definitely felt more strapped than not. I’d say to live a “High Upper Class” lifestyle there with all you mention, you need to be pulling in $750k-$1M+/yr to also be comfortable.

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Pay off for what? First it’s bourgeois and secondly yes but that’s not exactly ‘paying off'

At what point do you just move out to the burbs and live in a good public school district w/ a nice 4BR house as opposed to the private school/apt life.

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