Cannot keep up with bumble matches...flattering but feel terrible not having the bandwidth to reach out. Ladies - any way around this?

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@OP great analogy, so first date is the KYC, third date is the management presentation, then after due dilligence, date 3-5, most buyers leave the process

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Only match with CS dudes

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@OP thanks! I'm male, I would say that buyers leave because of the following reasons: seller valuation is higher than what the market can bear (they think they're gods gift but are not that great), due diligence uncovers some serious flaws (I.e. Some serious emotional baggage or concerns), or the ICom liked it but didn't love it so it didn't justify the risk and have instead decided to focus on other opportunities (most cases).

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You'll get tired of it soon after realizing nothing materializes after the 1st date, given the fact of the 'opportunity' of endless supply

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The question I and I believe the counter party always asks is, 'why settle, there's always more if not better...'

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I agree with PEAssoc1 - usually move on to other options once they have hooked up. Becomes a routine. Issue is the fact that they move onto other options though...bumble is just lead generation and date 1 is the KYC.

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@gs1 ya that happens but not on the first date, 1st date on online dating is just verifying that they look like their pics, are relatively well spoken, and not crazy. Then you go out a few more times, hookup, and then move onto other options. If that happens to you on the first date I think you're just failing the attractive/not crazy

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@Op yep I am haha 👍

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Now kiss

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^won't go any further than a first date, statistically speaking 😏

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Woot OP hop on that buy side gravy train 👊

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@gs1 are you sure it's not just that you suck at dating? Ya most bumble dates don't end in marriage but a lot grow into 3-5 dates I would say

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Will say that it sometimes isn't about the attractive / crazy test though. Often times it's a fine date but life gets in the way post date 1 because you keep swiping and forget about date 1.

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Amazing and makes perfect sense. Sounds like you're very familiar with this process. Are you single @PEAssoc1? 😍

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Put a burner email.

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Fishbowl love is incredibly amusing, keep it coming

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Attractive/not crazy test*

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@PEAssoc1 ha, love it! Are you a female / male? Why do you think buyers leave the process? Ideally they don't leave.

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Haha! 😘 @PEAssoc1

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I'm about to send an email to his burner email from my burner email ;)

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