Can’t believe I’m actually posting this but should I be concerned that my boyfriend’s entire explore page on Instagram is models in bikinis/lingerie?….

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I’d dump him. He’s not ready for commitment

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It means hes looking at these pages often or talking about it. Also similar content on other apps

I know this because my whole page is sushi, gin, and french bulldogs

I would be irritated and hurt. You're entitled to your feelings

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I’d feel disrespected. Also I wonder how he’d feel if yours was all hot, shirtless men..

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Yeah, that should be in his private account only.

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I would be. But others may not. All comes down to how you feel not how you should feel.

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I said something to him right as I saw it (was not snooping) he had Instagram open and I asked him to see a post that he was looking at of some recipe. I clicked out of the post and saw the entire explore page of women. He honestly got pretty defensive and claimed that it’s like that because his friends send him posts of these girls. Not sure the algorithm works completely like that lol

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Explore page is populated based on what he has interacted with in the past. So he is looking at similar content / accounts.

So yes I would be concerned and grossed out ☹️ sorry

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Looking at half naked women on IG is like the new version of porn, it becomes more of a problem when men start contacting them, and many do. You can directly ask him if he sends them messages, he may not be honest but this is your chance to reiterate your boundary.

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Been there and it’s a bad feeling. My ex followed some fully nude “models” (their nips etc were sorta crossed out with a thin pen editing feature) 🤮

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He should own it and use some reflection time. Just being mad is not helping, hope you will feel better soon

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My husband never uses Instagram or any social media (10+ years and counting) and when he opened an account recently , all he got on explore page was bikini clad women . I think the algorithm uses it to create engagement with anyone “male” and adjusts from there

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Yeah that def makes sense! My boyfriend is definitely an Instagram user so I would assume the algorithm would adjust by now if he wasn’t looking at those posts lol

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My husband’s Instagram shows butts and bikinis. He follows some fitness models and Kim Kardashian. He also follows wrestlers and comedians (other things he’s into.
Not a problem unless it’s a problem - e.g., you don’t trust him, this is what he does in real life, he’s cheated, etc.
I have no problems with this and trust him completely. The fact that he’s not hiding it is important.

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Yeah my husbands is a conglomeration of girls in bikinis, comedy and fitness stuff. I don’t care because he’s very open about what he’s looking at.

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Leave him

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