Chatting to a girl on one of the apps.

She says hear instead of here. Consistently so.

Me thinks it's a red flag.

Am I normal?

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Depends how hot she is 😂. I’ll put up with a bit more stuff that is slightly annoying depending on her hotness lol

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Setup a FaceTime date to get confirmation. I’ve been fooled to many times in person this is something I always do before an actual date.

Here is the corrected version of your post, OP

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I’ve been chatting with a girl on one of the dating apps.

She consistently says “hear” instead of “here.”

Would it be normal to consider this a red flag?

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She types it. She doesn’t say it.

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She's probably just lazy and uses speech to text on her phone.

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lol

It’s a test

It may jsut be hearsay

If she’s talking to someone like you, that’s a bigger red flag

That M3 also has terrible English

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I here ya, but I don’t see a problem hear

Sounds like a tinder match🤔

U could have been her grammar teacher🥲

You can do better

Maybe it’s autocorrect and she doesn’t care

That’s what is wrong with society. No one takes the time to care.

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Huge red flag. That is one of the things that can destroy a relationship. An additional pet peeve of mine is when people sat “I seen it”. It’s like metal fingernails on a chalkboard.

“I seen it” is a pretty mild and inoffensive grammatical difference in various American English dialects or variations

*Methinks

Not a red flag, just a potential sign of low intelligence

Maybe she is just communicating that she’s got an accent that includes a hear/here merger

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