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Hi Working Moms! Did any of you start out wanting lots of kids, but after having 1-2, change your mind? Or did you find yourself wanting even more than you did originally?

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What is your agency’s maternity or paternity leave policy?

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I’ve been asked to weigh in on how to improve my firms parental leave policy. It’s currently 8 weeks paid for birth parent with an extra week for each year at the firm (up to 12 weeks total) and 2 weeks paid for non-birth parent. I’m in a major city, firm is a boutique that has been around a very long time. What would you suggest? Any studies or research you’ve seen recently on trends in parental leave policies also helpful. I’d like to have some sort of data to back up what I recommend. TIA!

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Need some advice bc my work and personal life intertwine. Too much sometimes. Father is my boss. Wife is adamant that when folks come over they take off their shoes. Tried to ask my family...cont

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Mother has a decent nest egg ($3M) and lives in an extremely LCOL area. Currently manages money through RBC, however the fees are a gross operating expense of 0.36%. What do you all recommend? I’m not savvy enough to manage it myself however I know that fees can stack up and kill returns. Would appreciate any insight/advice/snark.

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Any good detox diets that good to try out and not horrroble for your body? I want to curb some sugar cravings and bad eating habits over the past year. Has anyone done one they liked? I was thinking of starting a 3 day detox then go into 7days of a white meat/fruit cleanse for a week. Then just stop eating like a complete child on holiday after those are done 😅 any advice on what helped you get past the cravings and level set would be helpful! I heard good things about keto but like options.

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What is a useful, comprehensive but not too long of a book for parenting toddlers?

LO is 16 months old, very sweet and social, at the park every day with other kids with either me or her nanny. Not in day care. Yesterday we had a play date and she slapped another baby on the head. Not hard and did not scare her, but the act of “aggression” took me by surprise and I felt terrible about it. I’d like to be more proactive about toddler psychology, what’s to come and how to react/ teach. TY!

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I currently work as a personal injury lawyer at a small law firm, 5 years experience, graduated from T30 law school in 2015. Our subject area is pretty niche, and I am looking to branch out. Not big law, but a different subject area, and hopefully something with a better work life balance (have a small child with hopes for more). Open to leaving the law for a compliance/HR/other type position. Am I even marketable for something like that? Am I being unrealistic?

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Hi Moms. I’m 4.5mo postpartum with my first, and I’m having incredible feelings of resentment toward my husband, who I love dearly and with whom I’ve always had a great relationship. It feels like he’s not factoring me or the baby into his decisions (e.g. going on a 4d boys trip, attending big events), while I’m left with the consequences. My mat leave is ending, and he’s now sick with COVID. He’s quarantining at my in-laws while I return to work and take care of baby. I’m so frustrated… (cont.)

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Hey guys… I’m a case worker in child safety and I’m someone who loves being outdoors/dies at a desk all day. I’m hoping to organise that at least once a week I can go to a cafe and catch up on all my case notes that need to go into the system.
So far the only reason I’ve been told no is that “if you do then everyone will want to and then no one will be in the office” … how can I convince them that I work better out of the office and get this freedom & mental break for myself?

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Relapsing really bad, scared I’m going to die this time and leave my two young children without a mother. I’m really out of control and need serious help

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Hi Fishes, I have got an offer letter from IBM, however I came to know I am pregnant and have to go on maternity before probation period. Shall I join IBM or not? any help is appreciated

Thanks in advance.

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We are expecting a second child in about 15 days and my first one is 2.5 yrs old. My wife took a break after our first child and we never had a nanny. Our entire family lives outside of US. With the current situation, none of our extended family members are now able to travel and help. we are worried about hiring a nanny at this point because of covid concerns. What are my childcare options so that I can be with my wife during the labor?

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Had a my 7 week ultrasound today, confirming I’m PREGNANT after my second medicated IUI!!!! So happy to have heard that heartbeat. There were some oddities on the ultrasound- wondering if any of you have experienced any/all of these and how it worked out (doc didn’t sound alarms, just said we’d keep an eye, but naturally I’m worried):
1. Grapefruit sized cyst on right ovary 2. Unknown object with no heartbeat (maybe a hematoma) in the gestational sac with my baby 3. An empty gestational sac

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I want to brag on my kid, but I don’t want to embarrass him, so I’m doing it here. My college sophomore found out today that he ended up with a B in his accounting class - which is remarkable, given that he received a 50 on his first exam and a 70 on his second. I’m not sure I’ve ever seen him work this hard - and I couldn’t be more proud. The grades that come easily don’t impress me nearly as much as the ones that are hard fought.

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Looking to leave but trying to conceive ( 1 year now and having fertility issue). I am sticking around cause the flexibility is great with me need to see RE and get blood draw. But also concerned I'm just going to end up not leaving if I never get pregnant :( Upcoming year will be a new client for me and I know it'll bring stress. However a new role in industry might not be as easy either and I'll need to prove myself, where as currently I'm already regarded as a high performer and gained trust.

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Wife told me the other day, after a 70 hour week, that it's easier to think of herself as a single parent. That way she's less angry at my job or firm. I hate that she feels that way. 3 yrs & 4 mths.

I’m joining Meta next month and as a parent and someone who would like to puts family first, I worry about finding a team with a healthy WLB. I read Ads are typically bad at WLB. What other teams/orgs are known for their good or bad WLB?

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I feel like I am failing my kid by having them in daycare with these increasing covid, flu and rsv cases. Shes 5 months old and already has had RSV, covid and has been coughing everyday since I put her in daycare two months ago. Please Mamas tell me Im not crazy for being stressed out😢

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Hi , I recently started preparing for " data analyst" course. I have masters degree in computer science and 2 years experience as business analyst. Currently I'm on a career break of almost 7 years and trying to get back into IT as a data analyst now.
I started doing a course on coursera " Google data analytics certificate " . I'm not sure how to get back into job market. Please suggest any courses or road map to entry level data analyst jobs?

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It's been 8 months in EY INDIA. with this month I have 4 yoe. When do I will receive promotion from Acon to con. Any idea? Or should I confirm with coinselor@EY

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Is $2200 a lot for rent?

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How soon should I follow up after sending an application? I sent my files exactly a week ago through a portal (Edjoin for school jobs) and it says “District viewed”.

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Which city you are living in currently ?

People from Same city can ping each other for catch up or network.

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What’s everyone doing nowadays?

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Dear @EY Partners,
Whether non-equity Partnership (NEP) to Equity Partner movement not permitted ? Have been hearing a few news about certain recent updates. Kindly help with your input.

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How did you get better with money? I'm fucking terrible with it and kind of always have. I don't want to hear tips from people who are natural good at it. Would love to hear stories of people going from bad to good. TC: $170k

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Anyone out there an expat who is working in Ireland in HSE, Ireland East Hospital Group? Or more specifically in the Wexford General Hospital? I’m invited to interview and would love to converse about the system a bit!

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Hi,

I joined EY GDS 3 months back . Now thinking about trying for Canada PR. If i get the PR, is it possible for a transfer to EY Canada?

Also anyone thinking about canada PR? I am trying to figure out about the process and if its worth it?

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Has anyone done a cruise by themselves?
Super single, enjoy traveling alone, but have never done a cruise by myself and don’t know if it would be insanely depressing?
Any advice/tips?

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I work in construction and spend a lot of time out in the field, can I get some recs for sturdy shoes that will last me a while?

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Anyone knows about PSG group in Deloitte, like daily work?

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I have 11 years experience in TCS as Business analyst in payment cards/switch/banking domain and team lead of a cards product development team.Please let me know if any opportunities

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Any agency in Chicago hiring for Diversity & Inclusion and open to actually addressing the challenges and make change? Bonus points for an agency that allocates a proper budget.

I have been selected as Cloud Support Engineer in Amazon and is being offered 20lpa fixed and 5lpa sign on bonus for first year and 4lpa sign on bonus for second year. And I am being offered 20lpa in Amazon stocks spread over 4 years. My YOE=5 years and I am from DevOps background. When the salary discussion happened I didn't negotiate at all. Is the offer good enough for my experience?

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Does anyone know of any fun dance classes in Miami?

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Interested in knowing thoughts of others about Sped Pre-K, low cognitive, having to be taught compound words, syllables, and spacing between words before they know colors, follow one steps, numbers, etc. No problem exposing them to it, but feel focus should be on prerequisite skills. Your thoughts?

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Additional Posts in Childfree Lifestyle

NYC peeps, come join the CF meetup groups!

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Teachers who choose to not have children...I'm not alone 🥺😂

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Pics of kids with food on their faces makes me want to vom every time I see them on social media 🤮 no thank you!

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Are there CF people in Toronto? Would you be open to networking and being friends? 34/F

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Are there housing developments strictly for childless people, not 55+?

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Anyone else had their childfree life reconfirmed with virtual teaching? 🤣 I had a first grader (who had their two younger siblings screaming in the background )dramatically throw their head back and say "omigod I have suuuch a headache". Made me extra thankful for the silence in my own life.

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Didn’t know this group existed and I am so glad I found it!! Happy to be here with likeminded folks.

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Got my BISALP yesterday. All went really well and similar to other posts here nothing much is different re: recovery. One thing I would add for plus size folks is I didn’t know I would need to use a little KT tape to keep my belly up so my incisions get air. Not an issue but wanted to share for others. Feel free to ask me any questions!

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I just ended a relationship over (in part) not wanting kids. This is the second relationship out of two in the past five years I’ve had end because of this issue. Are they all like this? Why does no one seem to believe me when I say I don’t want kids? Feeling very blue and hopeless.

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Hi,

I am 31. Married for 12 years. I spoke to my doctor two days ago about sterilization. It was the first time a gynecologist didn't judge me for that. I know they're supposed to council because of the risk of regret, but sometimes they seem judgy. I am considering getting my tubes tied, but my husband isn't super on board because of the finality of it.

He is ok with not having kids, but seems to think I will change my mind.

Anyone taken this step without having had a y children?

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My friends are all having kids or on the path to having kids. I find myself not wanting to be around them anymore. It's weird and they've become weird.

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Anyone dating someone with kids? How are you navigating?

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Any childfree folks wanna hang next weekend?

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I visited a friends that has a 1 year old baby. She asked me if I wanted to get a dog, and then asked me if I wanted to get a plant 😂. She said it was a good way to start carrying for something else and get experience for the future. I think this is hillarious I don’t see how a dog or a plant will fulfill my life. 😂

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My Hinge profile references wanting to be a DINK (I figure IYKYK) but also clearly states "does not want children" ...

And yet I get so many responses from dudes who ask "what's a DINK" with profiles that clearly state "want children"

I just want to throw my phone down a sewer.

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Thrilled to be hosting Mother’s Day brunch for my MIL and SIL. Even more thrilled that at the end of the day, my house will be child free. Party on, friends!

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I’m consciously trying to unlearn the habit of saying “congratulations” when someone says they’re having a baby. It’s not an accomplishment!😂 Plus, I want to counter the assumption that having children is always “good.” It’s hard to find other things to say, though!

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