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Clinically depressed (functioning) and in mourning over the loss of a family member. If not for wfh, I would have had to take a sabbatical. Wild to think that the performative-but-not-performance stuff (am I cute and polished in the office at 8.45am on the dot?) could dictate our trajectories in the before times. Grateful for the executional focus of wfh that allows me to be a crying unshowered mess between mtgs without damaging my career.

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Oh yeah. Wfh really bring some dignity for people with mental health issues. Although i had a lot of anxiety over stuff I was not “seeing”. Like not not seeing my copywriter writing stuff and wondering if they are going to be able to send me stuff in time for me to layout. Not seeing my boss reaction to stuff and freaking out if he still likes my work or not. That kind of stuff. But for everything else it was great. Too bad is over now. :/

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