Commenting on something in someone's zoom background - creepy or okay to do? Example: pointing out the Xmas tree in the background, or a painting on the wall etc

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100% ok, unless the comment itself is creepy

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Unless you’re belittling someone then it’s fine. I had a CCO call out more than one junior creative at the beginning of the pandemic saying “no one wants to see your bed behind you” from his multimillion dollar ranch with zero understanding that they don’t have anywhere else to take calls because rent is so damn high and wages are so low. Just don’t be that guy.

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Depends on the comment. “Wow that laundry has been there for a few days” is different from “cool painting!”

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If someone hasn’t blurred it I assume I can talk about it. It is easy to blur.

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I think it’s ok? Like in that awkward moment at the beginning when people are waiting for everyone to join and making small talk.

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I wouldn’t do it. Simply because it’s like going into their home uninvited. It also subconsciously puts pressure on other people in the meeting, that their home is also being scrutinized.

For anyone who thinks I’m wrong, notice how many people blur or block their background, and it’s now a feature on almost all video chat programs. This is the reason.

Now if the person said, “I just put up this Christmas tree over there,” then it would be OK, because they invited you to look.

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"How are you doing today?"

"WAY OUT OF BOUNDS CREEPO! THATS MY BUSINESS!"

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I’ve done it before cus people have cool shit. I feel like if they didn’t want you to look, they’d blur the background 🤷‍♂️

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No it’s normal and also makes people feel more human!

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This guy. Hey LOOK at all of my cool things. Just don’t talk about my cool things. Looks like you’re being the weird one, VP

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Use a virtual background to about any issues or comments about where you’re working from

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Same logic: we shouldn’t tell people it’s rude to wake up others at 2 a.m. with a phone call, it’s on everyone else to auto-set their phones to Do Not Disturb every night.

I have it there for you to ask about.

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Shoooooot, it’s all fair game. I’ll call out your browser tabs if I can see those too

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If they haven't chosen a virtual background or a blurred one, they're completely fine with comments about what's behind them. They've had the opportunity to dissuade comments and have actively chosen to let people see their space.

If you’re creeped out by this, blur your background.

This why I'm camera off unless it's a client call

Every call I have (with new people) they talk about my background. I mean, it is pretty kick ass - big white bookshelves and full of cool vintage things- but yes EVERYTIME. used to bug me. So i started taking things OFF the shelves. And now people ask WHERE such and such went. Next step is to just blur it out. Because its weird

Maybe you should be less interesting.

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I am happy for my team to see my apartment and know what I’m about. I find it more weird when colleagues have horrible boring home office rooms behind them with bland walls and furniture.

So many look like they live in my dads suburban house from the 80s but are in their 30s. Like they bought their lifestyle from Bobs discount store.

Omg sorry you have to overthink this 🥲 it’s 100% okay shows you’re human

If it's in your background the assumption is you put it there to be noticed. Don't be surprised when someone does.

Imagine being offended when someone comments on a piece of clothing or hairstyle- backgrounds are the same thing, an expression of yourself presented to the person you’re talking to.

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