Could anyone recommend a nanny? Or how should I go about finding a good nanny?

Marriages should be for 4 years terms and both parties must agree to renew it. It would end a lot of the nonsense going on.

I'm going to admit I'm a hopeless "ABCD" so please pardon me for asking a dumb question but can someone explain how and why cousins are arranged married in Muslim households?
- Like how far apart must the relation be?
- Is it only a Pakistan thing? A Subcontinent thing? Or World Over?
- In India and elsewhere all my cousins call each other brothers and sisters basically. Is that a Hindu thing only?
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Where can I find new friends? I feel like my priorities are so different from them now. They are still in a hyper competitive rat race mindset. Every conversation is about finmemes or PE recruiting or how their date works at Wells instead of at Goldman. I’m the only one in a stable relationship and everyone I’ve set them up with they’ve turned down based up picture alone. They have been my friends all through college but I’m tired of how bitter and competitive they’ve become.

How’s your work-life balance at the moment? Do you think research positions allow enough time for us to spend with friends and family?

Anyone here regrets not working in Indian govt sector 9 to 5 life?! I see my parents and older siblings and their friends and they all seem to be enjoying life more than I.

This feels so Weak to admit.
I feel so lonely and can't focus / think about Work, which is about to pick up as SOW just got signed.
I am also sad that gf had to fly home to be with parents.

Hey sweet ladies, C (26 male) this side. Hope you are keeping safe and healthy!

About me? People usually say I am their go to person for when they need emotional support, advise about relationships and when they feel low, maybe because I help them cheer up again and be the ear they need.

I am a great listener too. I can go on listening to you if you feel low, won't say a word until you are finished, will hold your hand when you are done and try to bring your sweet smile back!
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Off topic
I'm 25 m from Rajasthan
My CCTC is 12.5 I'm getting an offer of 20 in banglore. But my dad doesn't want me to relocate, he says you should now settle down. Try for govt jobs private job bakwas h, otherwise find a job nearby.
I told him i have no interest in gov jobs to which he said disgustingly " interest nhi h baad m yaad krega " this sentence broke my heart,i dnt want to be disrespectful, but i feel guilty now as if I've let him down
Dnt knw Wht to do now I'm clueless

Alright so I have been with my partner for several years and recently she said that she wants to get married. Im Happy with what we have now and don't feel the need to get married. Why do people get married? People all around us are getting married and engaged and I feel like that is weighing on her but when we drown all that out and it's just us we are happy!

Did anyone see those big bucket of tears from Jihoon, and Devan’s response? Devan needs to go back home with her mom and leave Jihoon with his mom.

Dreading the H4 amendments. After 2 years of being a stay at home wife, I thought I finally had a shot at leading "the good life"...but never realized it would be just a temporary dream.

My SO is concerned our combined annual income of ~400k won’t be enough to make ends meet in a high COL city - especially when we have kids. Am I right to think that’s crazy? We’re both...contd

Working moms in Seattle… could you use a moms night out? Like leave kids with partner on a Friday night, have vent/rant session with some fellow moms, go to a rooftop bar, or Sunday morning pedicure type of hangout? If so, tell me how I can meet you?! Is there a “moms go out” club? Seattle freeze is getting to me!

My mother always kept me going, even in the most difficult times, everytime I spoke with her on the phone while I was deployed I left smiling and feeling the warmth that only a mother could bring, I'm here thanks to her.

Anyone have any experience in coping with someone’s Narcissistic Personality Disorder? It’s my mother, and this has psychologically devastated me all my life, but I don’t know whether to keep trying or cut her out.

It is astonish the kind of relationship advice that most people post here. Aside from one or other trying to be empathetic most people post stuff like “yeah you should just break up/divorce”. I’m always flabbergasted by the lack of respect for third party feelings and history. Here’s my advice to literally everyone in those threads. Go to therapy. Because you are either here seeking validation or dumping your own resentments into others.

Thie bowl is created to listen and uplift other, Judgmental and negative comments against any gender will be kicked out from the group..

You age, sex, marriage status, family doesn't matter here...its all about sharing your negative or positive experiences of life and get the positive comments from friends around you...

You can look for friends, partner and whatever you want here... But your post should not be debatable...


MENTAl HEALTH IS VERY IMP FROM FRESHER TO LEADERSHIP PEEPS..

Your child asks you if they should become a nurse. What do you say?

How do you find a healthy balance between your job and your personal life?

will accenture send diwali gift?

I know it's typical for creatives to stay late, but what time do most account people leave? I get out around 7:30 - 8:30pm most nights... But usually am last account person in my office there.

Looking for some insight in Google Shopping vs Facebook shopping, any pros vs cons for either of them?

Hello All,

I have 6.4 years of experience as Change and Release management. Looking for a job change. Can someone please refer me. If you have any opportunities open now.

Thank you

I’ve read over 20 books on dating in the last 2 years. I know so much, I could start a consultancy

Would love to hear from those who worked in IB for more than 2 years and still thinking about LT career in IB. What keeps you going? How do you deal with burnout?
In IB at Boutique for about a year. It’s been tough but love the work. Just been compromising on health and exercise and family responsibilities…

How many hours a day are you working?

Is it true we need to return the joining bonus along with GST if we resign within a year in FIS?
What if someone resigns a week after his 1 year completion? Do they still need to pay?

Was recently laid off.. I’ve had to follow up with HR twice to figure out why I still have not been sent my termination paperwork/benefits/severance packet. What the heck is happening.

MBA class of 2017 comp

Two years out, what are you making?

I’m at 280k TC, sales strategy for Bay Area tech

140K including OTE in mid market sales.

Hope this recession improves

It is astonish the kind of relationship advice that most people post here. Aside from one or other trying to be empathetic most people post stuff like “yeah you should just break up/divorce”. I’m always flabbergasted by the lack of respect for third party feelings and history. Here’s my advice to literally everyone in those threads. Go to therapy. Because you are either here seeking validation or dumping your own resentments into others.

How hard is it being a legal recruiter? What skills do you need? What does compensation look like? Given the market being so hot and so many legal recruiter emails hitting associates' inboxes everyday, is the field too saturated?

Came across an Associate Managing Consultant role at Master Card and wanted to know the salary range for this role. I am an MBA grad. Thanks!

Freaking out - I accidentally passed a school bus with yellow flashing lights. There was no stop sign out and I just blanked. Luckily the bus was empty and no kids getting on or off but can’t stop stressing about the fine.

New dad, anyone know if i can use standard and extended parental leave? Or just one or the other?

Anyone from KPMG? I see lot of people from the other 3 but haven’t seen many KP here 🙃

Has anyone been officially required to return to office on a full-time or part-time basis? I'm curious about what your return to office or work arrangement is currently, or what you've been hearing from others

Hey everyone! Any permanent residents travelled to the UK recently? I’m confused as to what I need to go there, and then what I need to come back here. Any help will be appreciated :)

I’m in the banking sector, how do I get into investment banking?

I’m from a non-target school. Could you give me any pointers?

What are the firms that are hiring? (corp that are good exit options for Big4 with 5 YOE)

Thoughts on BCG Toronto?

Thinking of buying a rental property in the gta. How likely is it that it won’t get rented out?

I’ve had issues since high school, but just formally got diagnosed with ADHD. I’ve always managed to get by okay at work (I’m no super star), but remote meetings have been really difficult for me and I now feel like I’m barely hanging on. Trying meds now, but no benefits yet. Pros and Cons of disclosing the diagnosis to my team, partner, or firm? I’m torn.

Senior Consultants, how much are you making? Company if you’re comfortable and YoE!

Any company that offers cross border shipping from USA like order on Amazon . com and deliver here?

Do sales expectations vary between strategy focused vs implementation focused consulting practices?

Context: in my previous gig I focused on strategy & I didn’t feel like Ms were being pushed to make sales all the time, but I was further away from that level. In my current (staff aug) gig, leaders seem to focus less on assessing whether the client really needs us/ how we can help, and more on making a sale. Is this difference a result of the type of work each team sells?

Any MBB'ers willing to chat about how, and why they decided on their firm? I'm an MBA student and am looking for some first-hand experiences as opposed to relying on google.

What are the best exits for analysts/associates in Toronto? Tech companies don't have much of a presence here.

What the f$&k

2 weeks of shut down and my ceo announces no promotions no bonus no increments voluntary job reduction

75% of the year is already gone and we are doing great ... 2 weeks made this !!