{ "media_type": "text", "post_content": "Couple days from the 1 yr anniversary of the pregnancy loss that destroyed my marriage and my dreams. I live alone, work from home, and have nobody to talk to about this. I'm in the middle of a busy season at work and cant stop crying. I feel like I'm dying inside all over again.", "post_id": "617724d56041c500358d1692", "reply_count": 12, "vote_count": 13, "bowl_id": "5e8656b80bdab1002a7355dc", "bowl_name": "Confession " }

Couple days from the 1 yr anniversary of the pregnancy loss that destroyed my marriage and my dreams. I live alone, work from home, and have nobody to talk to about this. I'm in the middle of a busy season at work and cant stop crying. I feel like I'm dying inside all over again.

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Sorry that you’re going through this, OP. Have you considered therapy? Until then, you can talk to us😊. Can you take that day off from work or is it a needed distraction? Will be praying for you. I really hope God heals your heart.

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❀️❀️❀️ sending you love. Can you find another woman to help you go through this rough time? You have the strength to go through this. This is not permanent. We all have rough times and you are not alone.

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Where you are at does not determine your finish! It’s hard now but you WILL make it through :)

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Losing a child is something I can’t even imagine. My heart fully goes out to you. My mother experienced child loss but then I was born. She also went through a divorce with my dad but now she is married, working a job she loves, and has two children, two step children, and 5 grandchildren who adore her

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Sorry you’re going through this. I don’t know what it’s like in accounting - can you take a couple sick days? No need to give anyone details. Take the time to take care of yourself, however it looks. For me it’s getting as cozy as possible, lighting some candles, ordering my favorite takeout, and watching sad movies because sometimes it’s easier for me to give myself permission to cry when it’s not about my actual life.

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OP, I feel your pain and I understand what you’re going through. I speak from my own experience. We lost a baby last year few days before Thanksgiving. I tried to play tough and didn’t take time to mourn. The loss, the excessive stress at work and some additional junk I was going through with our COO during budget season, pushed me off the cliff. I had to take time off work and started to go to therapy. It helped me tremendously with the grieving process and the depression. If you need to talk to someone, feel free to reach me out by PM πŸ«‚

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Can you use your ERP to speak to a professional? I’m so sorry for your loss.

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My heart breaks for you. I has a loss this time last year too (and no kids yet, but not giving up hope). There are very dark days but your feelings are valid and there is so much light in your future. I strongly encourage you to talk fo a professional but you can also send me a DM. Other things that helped me: fresh air, exercise, sunshine, uplifting TV (EllenTube, Ted Lasso!), making art, reading. Hang in there. ❀️❀️❀️

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Sending you hugs, love, and prayers for strength and comfort. I’ve been through a similar loss and state of depression. It may not seem like it now, but it does get better. Give yourself grace, time to heal, and remember to practice self love daily.

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😒 best wishes

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