Crazy when husband wakes up midnight to watch cricket even after being in US for 3 yrs 😏

I feel stuck. This job is hard. Feels like lots of people piling on while I’m away from home and my SO. It would be nice to feel more supported and have less toxic clients.

A good friend’s dad just passed away because of COVID. He is devastated. I’m trying to do something to be helpful, but don’t know what I can do...

I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this but I (25M) have a feeling a friend(23F) is hitting on me. Whenever we hang out she’ll get really close and keep touching/poking me whenever we need to turn corners, cross the block, etc because she’s the navigator. When we sit next to each other on the bench she’ll be up on my personal space up. Just a lot of shoulder to shoulder touching. I had other female friends this touchy as well but I wouldn’t think anything of it because some people are touchier 1/2

I suspect that my dad is cheating on my mum again, he has history of a long affair when I was still a kid. I want to confront him to be sure, but my mum lacks financial security. What should I do?

I used to get 2-3 productive hours after the kids went to bed to catch up on work, chores, shopping, etc but now I'm struggling to have any motivation after the hour-long process of getting kids down.

I feel no sparks with my husband. He is more like a good friend + roommate for me now. After 6 years, I really miss the good old times when I felt that heart beat for someone, or the nights when we were crazy about each other (not him), and those sweet and passionate words. I feel so old. Is it normal?

Just discovering RSD after being diagnosed as an adult. I feel like SO MUCH of my life has been impacted by this and I just never had a name for it. At work if someone gives me negative or constructive feedback it can feel like a punch in the chest even if I know it's not personal. Makes romantic relationships so hard too. What do you do to handle it especially at work?

Any tips for organizing a bedroom, closet, dresser & bathroom? My teen has IADHD, and low executive functioning. Her room looks like a land mine. Clean clothes are mixed in with dirty, her desk is a disaster, she won’t let go of clothes she’s outgrown, drawers are open with clothes hanging out. A therapist said to close her door if we don’t want to see it but it’s more than that. She needs this important life skill & I don’t know how to help. Easier to organize w/o her but that’s not a solution.

Had a really intense 6 day fling with this guy who was visiting NYC for a week. Now he’s gone and I feel sad and longing for a relationship. Never had something like that before. Anyone else?

Looking to make new friends. Anyone want to meet up? Hard to make friends when you work a lot.

Here 28 weeks pregnant and tired of hearing you would need to do this for better lactation, you would have sleepless nights. Can a new mother not figure out on her own with the right scientific knowledge ? Is it important to go by what your parents , in-laws or known ones tell you ?

What are the best places to live in Dubai when moving with your family with a school going kid. This is for someone making 40-45k per month and want to balance in terms of not breaking the bank by choosing luxury but also live a comfortable and good life.

First-gen grad students, does your family put pressure on you to succeed? It feels like our relationship is them just bugging me about my work. I’d love some advice, I miss my fam.

Anyone in Boston? Trying to find friends that I can relate to more than just by age

My SO has severe anxiety which has resulted in a dead bedroom for nearly 2 years. I love her and am being supportive as she works through stuff in therapy but at the same time I also feel very sexually deprived and rejected. Is it alright for me to seek physical satisfaction outside the relationship until we are able to restart our sex life?

How soon after marriage do guys start demanding kids? Asking for a friend

My husband and I are both very ready to start a family. For those who have finished their PhD while pregnant or with a young child, do you have any regrets?

Moving to the city finally (vs commuting from CT) any f fish in their 20s or 30s looking to make new friends??

My boyfriend’s parents just told him they are getting a divorce (he’s 26). He’s pretty shaken and this definitely came out of left field. Any advice on how to be a supportive partner?

How much do brands pay for a logo to appear on a football field or as part of the clock/score ticker on the bottom of the screen? Does anyone have any idea of price ranges?

Looking for referrals

Experience - 9.10 years
Tech stack - .net,.net core,webapi, Microservices,c#,MVC,jQuery
Location - no issues , Temporary WFH preferring
Current CTC - 16.05 fixed
Np: 90 days

Please ping me the mail IDs i will sent my resume

For those console players, what sensitivity do you play on?

Losing friends to play with. Anybody down to play? ASL? 1.19KD lol

Any siemens employee who got retained by siemens pune?
If possible can you share your retention story?

Hi Fishes,
I got offer from persistent with 31lpa.
But most of the compensation they added into skill bonus-1400000. Due to that my basic salary is low- 50k as compared to my cctc basic salary, which is 63k with 19.5lpa.
Is it normally happening with everyone joining to persistent?
Can Persistent increase basic salary component and reduce the skill bouns?
I asked hr to increase my basic, but she mentioned that it’s system generated and standard format, vary cmpny to cmpny.
Plz help me out guys.

Starting new job as third year associate (I’ve been a term clerk since I graduated). Is it possible/relatively easy to hit 1800 hours working 8-6 and not working weekends? Afraid my husband will divorce me if I work too many hours 🙃

Do people use two phones?

Do you talk about your bonus size with colleagues at large firms where bonuses vary?

5 day trip to Spain:

Is Madrid worth checking out, or should I just go back to Barcelona?

Previous trip to BCN was only for 3 days, saw a fair but but was rushed and on the go.

I have been offered 21.5 lpa from TCS.What will be my in hand salary?

CAVS or CELTICS?

How much does a product developer for a commercial insurance company make?

Hi guys,
Currently recruitment are too slow or i m the only facing this ??.
Is this the start of recession

Thoughts on B-Reel?

AA mtg recommendations downtown (wtc area) Nyc?

Any agencies in LA in need of a freelance strategist to add to your roster? Background of account and strategy, organized and self motivated. I'm extremely good at jumping in and out as needed. DM me!

I have changed 2 jobs in last 3 years. Thinking about changing again. Good idea?

Desi Ladies, have you experienced hair fall with fable and mane HoliRoots hair oil? I’ve used it thrice and seeing insane hair fall! I’m panicking!!

I am going to join big4, what should I do with my current 401K money, transfer to new firm or roll over to IRA? What are some pros and cons? I am working on H1 so consider if I might have to go back to India before 59 years of age.

Any recommendations for long distance movers?

Just found out my wife’s uncle had a heart attack and they had to take him to 4 hospitals to get treatment.... the 1st 2 wouldn’t admit him cause they said how do we know if has covid or not... the 3rd one said we can’t admit him cause he didn’t come in our ambulance ... WTF is happening in India ... another reason why India is still and will continue to be a 3rd world country!!!

Looking to move out of NYC but would want get back to the city once things get better. Will buying a new car make sense? Don’t want to spend too much on a car. Any recommendations? What would you do?

How much does it usually cost for makeup and hair for a Indian wedding? (In the USA)

Does anyone else feel that US is an extremely lonely country to live in ?

Hi desi fam! How long did it take you to pay off your T-10 MBA loan with MBB/Tech gig?

What's your savings rate and net-worth?

Good desi movies on Netflix, Prime or Hotstar?

Is this a good time to send money to India or wait I feel with covid on rise in India .. rupee will become weaker. Any thoughts?

Can’t help but notice how Dravid is busy taking notes during the match while Shastri looked as if he was there as a spectator (and appeared mostly drunk). Poor Vikram Rathor has to done homework now too 😂