Cried for the first time because of a difficult client who made me feel incompetent.

Maybe I need a thicker skin?

I know I’m good at what I do, but it still sucks.

Idk 😭

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It's ok, we've all been there. For me, it helped when a mentor told me that nobody can make me feel crappy without my permission.

At the time, I was like, screw you mentor, I didn't give anybody permission! But it really is a true statement. Only take to heart the opinions of people who matter, the people who have your best interest at heart. Like your mentors! Not cranky clients.

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Yep! Thicker skin! Also if it’s any consolation... at least you are crying at home

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I have been there and am extremely sensitive. Try not to take it too personally. It says more about them than it does about you.

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